What to do

You date people cause you love them, stick with them because you like who they are and want them around. If you are breaking up because of the lack of love and have considered it this far, then how much do you enjoy whats specific to her that you wont get with the new girl?

>>18203807

>online shit

You're breaking up because you're bored, because a relationship means you have to deal with the good and the bad.

The new girl seems interesting because you only get to deal with the easy stuff. You're not there for the day to day normalcy, just whenever you want to reach out to each other.

And if you got with this online girl, it'd be the same thing all over again - be happy for a while, get bored, start looking for someone else to liven things up, the cycle repeats.

Do whatever you're going to do anyway because you aren't going to listen to advice or pay attention, you're just here to have someone tell you "you should break up with your girlfriend."

So go ahead, do it. Cheat on her, then break up with her, then hurt the next girl you're with, and continue to be part of the cycle of people hurting each other and fucking each other up so that the next person who comes along has to work that much harder to make things right.

>>18203822
Specific? Well she lives nearby, the new girl is mainly an online thing but made me realize that I really don't care so much for my irl gf if I prefer to talk constantly with someone else.

I've always had the feeling that my gf is more like a friend with benefits than a gf, desu.
We don't talk so much, I don't get so engaged in conversation with her, she's always doing her things and I my own.

>>18203866
I'm aware of the fact that she's something new to me and I like the attention, something I don't get from my gf and even if I try to be more interested and get more in contact I just can't.

>>18203896

>can't

Why? If you don't get attention from your girlfriend, why are you with her?

>>18203913
Routine? Already used to each other? We don't live together though

>>18203928

So because you're comfortable enough to not change, but yet you still want to complain. Okay. Makes sense.

>no it doesn't

>>18203943
Sometimes it happens. I've been confused, and began thinking of talking to my gf about that, online girl or not, but she has a major clue that I shouldn't be okay with this.