Paranoid that my relationships are doomed to fail? I have no

>>18202216
You stop being a cunt.

Seriously, what the fuck do you want to hear? Go see a shrink about this, assholes on the internet do not replace a trained professional.

>>18202216
Usually you say you had a good time when you're there in person before you part, and not when you two are away going to bed after a long day.

Maybe she finds it endearing. Who knows?

>things are going really great - but maybe they seem too good to be true?

I've just got dumped so what I'm going to tell you might fuck you over - but, there is no guarantee that she is happy. She is maybe not just telling you everything. My girl was always smiling and jumping with happiness around me, then she dumped me and revealed that she had been thinking about dumping me for a long time.

But - it doesn't help you at all by acting suspicious at all - if she is fucking someone else or just finds you boring, what's the difference?

All you can do is TRUST HER and DO YOUR BEST EVERYDAY. Never think you are "safe to slack" or something. But also, depending on where you are in your relationship, don't be too pushy with shit that makes her feel like you are planning to impregnate her and chain her by the kitchen or something

Negative automatic thoughts and paranoia are something you needs to see a therapist for, ideally a cognitive behavioural therapist

All relationships end eventually. All of them. One of you has to die eventually. and the majority never even make it close to that. Learn to be happy in yourself first.

>>18202216

well we have many many many relationships in life, but only one can be the one that lasts until we die, and often times thats just because one of them dies early.

so its not paranoia, its logic that all relationships are doomed to fail, or rather that an ending isn't a failure, but rather just an ending, like graduation or getting a promotion or finishing a good movie.

tv shows aren't always 'cancelled', often times they just end.

regardless,you are paranoid that shes cheating so that is somethign