My worst fear is ending up like Kevin Malone from the Office.

First, don't have the name Kevin.

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Replace the word idiot with Kevin

You avoid being Kevin by not measuring your worth by how others perceive you.

>>18201843

first and foremost, start saving money. when you start to bald this will help pay for treatments to try and keep your hair going.

second, work out. the biggest flaw of kevin other than his genuine retardation is that hes fat as fuck. no matter how retarded you are, people will find it endearing if you're muscular, even as an older person.

being muscular just opens more doors in life, and no matter how ugly you look, you can rest assure that as you get older you will likely look better than 90% of the people just because you took care of yourself.

finally, if you're not retarded, you have nothing to worrry about.

>>18202381
> no matter how retarded you are, people will find it endearing if you're muscular

I can guarantee that no matter how large your biceps are, I would still find you to be a fucking loser with an attitude like that. Are you a 14 year old boy?

>>18202388

yeah, but no one cares what you think.

>>18202388

>i dont care how hard you work at being the best you can be
>if you're still naturally dumb i would still find you to be a fucking loser

good for you.

>>18202381
OP don't listed to this meathead he knows nothing. Be super proficient and knowledgeable in your job and all will be well. I guarantee you meathead spends too much time at the gym to be either.

>>18202869

OP, don't listen to this euphoric Gentleman, he knows nothing. Be strong and take care of your self and all will be well. I guarantee you this guy wears a fedora and thinks that doing his job (which EVERYONE does) is something to be proud of.

>>18202869

>don't get fit
>it will somehow affect your work

what?

>>18202869
>>18202894
Why not both?

>>18202904

thats literally what i suggested in my initial post, but somehow exercising will ruin your work ethic according to that guy.

>>18202358
This, kind of

Being good looking and knowledgeable helps, sure, but the biggest factor is your attitude. If you have a low opinion of yourself, if you're anxious about everyones opinion and if your social interaction are driven by fear and insecurity it will show in your conversations, behavior and body language. People will pick up on it.

Be content with yourself. Take a honest look at yourself and decide what it is that you don't like. Then work towards changing what can be changed with a reasonable amount of effort and accept what can't be changed. You're fat? Lose weight. You're incompetent? Study more and work harder. You're boring? Experiment, try new hobbies, read non-fiction books, travel, open yourself to new ideologies. Your nose is too big? Who the fuck cares? Yeah, you'll most likely have some undesirable traits you can't change. The way to become content with them is to have priorities, goals and ideals based on your positive traits. The things that matter to you are things you should be good at. Find them.

If you want to be accepted and admired by others you must become the kind of person who can be proud of himself and be honest and open with others without shame. You can't achieve that by making shallow attempts at impressing others when you see yourself as a looser. That would be like a fat guy trying to convince others that he's skinny by attempting to suck his gut in every time someone looks at him, instead of actually loosing weight.