How to approach girls in parties?

Honestly OP a lot of the replies you are going to get will say 'just do it'. This in itself isn't wrong but you just have to realise socialising is a skill that can be improved on with practice. The only way to get better at socialising is to 'just do it', each time you do it will feel more and more natural. I think this video is great on overcoming shyness in general:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I4I-nwdBjuw

>What can i do? how do i get myself to man up?
There's no easy answer to that, no magical trick that would instantly make you less of a pussy. It comes with experience, first time is really hard, the second time can be even harder if you got a nasty rejection (which is likely that you'll get), the third time is about the same, but eventually it will get easy and pleasant, even if you get rejected.

What helps a little is telling yourself a few things: it doesn't matter how she reacts, it doesn't matter whether she likes you, you're not trying to impress, you're only trying to talk to a girl and have fun. Remove any expectation and any act. You're there to talk to her because talking to pretty girls is fun, don't try to "play" her, don't try PUA bullshit, just socialize. Don't see it as a chore and don't try to prove anything, just try to have a natural and pleasant interaction with another human. And if it doesn't work forget about it and move on.

Fear of rejection is much worse than rejection itself. The only thing that can be hurt by rejection is your ego and that only if you let it.

>Also what should i do if the first thing they tell me is "i have a boyfriend already"?
Smile, say "Ok" and move on.

>>18201592
Was at a club and sat on a sofa for 5 hours because I took to much mdma. I was relaxed and feeling good after 2 hours and started watching the people. Smiled at some chicks I found attractive. Some carried on, some smiled back, some sat beside me to talk a little. Never got so many chances like then. I think it was good for them because they weren't annoyed because I wasn't pushy and just sat there inviting. They could choose if they wanted to come or not. One straight up asked me to fuck but I was too damn high. Guy I know does this all the time. Genuinly smiles at a girl and gives a little nod. Then it's up to her. It just feels very relaxed and casual, not like you're pushingg yourself on people

>>18201592
u stupid pussy. heres whats up. find the drunkest bitches and hit it. drink slow throughout the party so u remain sober. just let them get fucking wasted then fuck them good and hard when they r passed out

>>18201626
dude molly makes me so fucking confident. I could hit on anyone and feel great about it. That is a miracle drug

Something I've learned is that hitting on the ugly one first makes the whole attempt go smoother.

If there's a guy, talking to him first makes the attempt go smoother.

Both of these disarm the actual target.

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Nonononononononooooope

You don't approach them, they approach you. 100% success rate.

>What should I do if the first thing they tell me is "i have a boyfriend already"?

Retort with, "is he here? What he doesn't know won't hurt"

That'll make you come across as alpha and she might be into it

>>18201608
Time and time again I come back to the School of Life.

>>18201592
>walk up to girl
"hey how's it going, I'm anon, what's up?"

It's worked for me. Try it.

>>18201626
yeah, molly or x never worked for me socially either. It just made me feel so relaxed and feeling good that I didn't care about socializing anymore, I just sat back enjoying the pure pleasure.

>>18201592

Why approach girls like this? Don't you have friends that can introduce girls to you?