I've been with my girlfriend for about 9 months now and I'm about to turn 20 and go to university this year.
We both lost out virginity to each other and I love her very much but I keep hearing stories about how people get older and regret settling down so early. I definitely see a future with this girl and often think about marrying her and having kids.
Sex with her is pretty good but at the same time now that I know how good it feels I can't help but look at other women in a different way now and want to experience sex with different people. Sex with her is pretty vanilla since we're both inexperienced and also she's quite shy but we both enjoy it a lot and it gets better every time we do it.
Also, whenever I watch porn now I can't help but imagine fucking these other girls and experiencing other things.
What do I do? I don't want to break up with her because I love her but I also don't want to regret never fucking other girls my whole life, especially now that I'm at a point in my life where everyone around me is going to be fucking different people.
tl;dr
Love girlfriend I lost virginity to but want to fuck other women. Break up with love of my life and potential life partner to fuck girls or just suck it up and accept one sexual partner for the rest of my life?
>>18201543
Look you just gotta think, most people would envy your situation
>>18201548
Yeah but I don't know how to stop having these thoughts
>>18201543
Not worth it man. You'll find out that sex without love is really kind of empty. Why do you think all these crazy sorority girls have to guzzle cheap booze all night before going to the club to find dick? Because if they were sober they would realize that Chad Thundercock will probably flop on her for 5 seconds and then pass out.
When I'm with my girl I fuck her hard for hours, I love making her cum. I couldn't do that after a night of heavy drinking.
Keep sex fun and intimate. The idea of you "missing out" is not yours. It's been injected in your head by marketers who want you to CONSUME. Form your own ideas, don't be a fucking sheep.
>>18201552
Try new stuff with your girl, make it interesting
bird in the hand
>>18201553
Thanks man this makes a lot of sense. Being in love when we have sex probably has a lot to do with why it feels so good. My friends have told me about their experience losing their virginity and having sex with random women and it doesn't sound as great as it was for me with my girlfriend.