Guys help please

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>>18200970
>"Thank you that's so sweet"
>virgin btw

Is this bait?

>>18200975
What?

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>I'm a virgin btw

We can tell.

I want to compliment you on your bravery, though. Many young dudes are scared shitless of approaching girls, let alone asking for their number.

But lavishing a girl with "you're beautiful" and such is a rookie move, and "thanks you're sweet" is the most un-enthused, yet polite, reply a girl can muster.

My impression is this; it won't happen. I might be wrong, but don't stress about it either way. But you made the first big leap, and that's worth some genuine praise.

>thank you that's so sweet
that's a rejection friend-o

girls are so nice that they become not nice.

>>18201005
I'm not interested in sex, It's just that the girl was so sweet, and I talked a little bit awkwardly, that's why I told her that her beautiful smile has stopped my train of thoughts

>>18201009
No, she responded like right away.
If it was a rejection I'll know it, and she was smiling and looking at me alot in the bus

>how beautiful her smile is and everything
>and everything
wait what.

post the messages so we can critique and advise

>>18201012
>>18201012
Yeahhhhh, it's a rejection, or at the very least not a positive reaction. You would have been better off to just open a conversation instead of lavishing her with compliments.

Compliments are like fatty foods - fine in moderation. A pretty girl can summon up compliments from her orbiters whenever she wants but she will never date any of them.

The only possible way you can salvage this is to turn it into a conversation about some mutual interest and stay away from complimenting her or asking her out because you're walking a fine line and if you push again before she's actually interested then you're going to get diddly squat.

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>>18201014
I didn't say " and everything", and it's in French

I will translate literally : " I'm not the type of guys who ask for phone numbers, but your beautiful smile made me lose my train of thoughts".

" Hi!
Thank you, that's so sweet "

>>18201012
it's unfortunately /generally/ a rejection my friend.
but you're right the instant response is a really good sign it's potentially not. but like, it's impossible to tell for sure what she actually thinks of you off of what you've told us.

>smiling on the bus
irrelevant at this point. girls change their opinions of guys in a heartbeat

>>18201010
>I'm not interested in sex
Good luck convincing her of that. If she's half as pretty as you think, she heard about her 'beautiful smile' three times that day before she met you.

I'm not making fun of you dawg, I'm just trying to express that petty comments like "you're pretty" ran their course on most women a few years into puberty.

For the benefit of the doubt, though, use what I call the 'daddy long-legs approach'. Assume they're more afraid of you than you are of them. It's entirely possible she's into you, and doesn't know how to accept flirting.

Either way, your technique needs a little work.

You want some advice on good ways to engage a girl?
>Ask about her family
>Ask her about her tastes (music, TV, whatever)
>Ask about her dreams, plans for the future, etc

The running theme here is that you should try to engage women on a personal level, rather than a superficial one. You will see a more active response.

>>18201022
That's actually not as bad as you made it sound in the OP. Seems pretty solid, actually.

So, maybe go for the casual strike.
>Would you be down to get a coffee with me sometime?

>>18201028
>use what I call the 'daddy long-legs approach'. Assume they're more afraid of you than you are of them. It's entirely possible she's into you, and doesn't know how to accept flirting.

She had glasses and when I looked at her she removed them, and smiled while blushing, she looks as awkward as me.

So do I have at least a small chance?

>>18200970
what the fuck are you doing.

OP, please. You met her once and you're telling her that shit over facebook before talking about anything else. That may work on hookers or in porn but i think you will have issues irl unless you're talking to catfish

>>18201035
I didn't want to get friendzoned, never did, never. I go straight at the point

>>18201030
>Would you be down to get a coffee with me sometime?
Definitely going to try this?

>>18201037
In my opinion, coffee is the perfect first date. It's casual, informal, it can be short if the date goes bad, or it can be long if it goes good. It's public, yet solitary.

Go for it, my man. Even if you were doing as badly as I thought at first, it would probably be the only thing I'd suggest to salvage it.