I have a problem with a certain girl.
Basically, we are on the same course at uni. Last year I asked her out and told her I liked her and she rejected me. I got over her in about a month but I still have to see her. While it doesn't concern me normally, her presence fucks up the social events when I go out with people from uni.
She's pretty much a bitch and she takes joy in trying to fuck me up socially. Though I don't care about her normally, I subconsciously still care what she thinks about me (even if I think she's a stupid skank now) and try to get her to respect me. Pretty much a lose-lose situation since I can't get angry or she will make others see me as a sperg. It just feels like shit.
Any idea how to solve this apart from avoiding her? I know she won't respect me no matter what and I think I shouldn't care about the respect of such a person anyway.
>>18199496
This is why you don't take advice from here by listening to that old bullshit ''just ax her out you have nothing to lose ;))''.
>>18199496
>She's pretty much a bitch
What the fuck does she even do?
>>18199515
>''just ax her out you have nothing to lose ;))''.
You really don't. Even if this happens to you it isn't actually a problem.
>>18199496
The girl is trying to troll you because she is a bitch, and the best counter for a troll is just to not care man.
If you truly make yourself not care you will eventually find an opportunity to judo flip her bitch energy back onto herself.
She will be beaten and slink away, and possibly crawl back because she will sense the alpha.
Find humor in how inane and petty she is. Feel superior. That is how you will get respect.
Just get really really really angry.
Solves all problems.
B
>>18199647
I actually only have a few months of uni left, it's my last year. She's part of my friend circle though so perhaps I'll have to see her again.
Also shouldn't I not care about her respect? Though I appreciate your tips.
>>18199701
More likely I would be seen as a sperg.