I'm 25 and I've never had sex.
I suppose having severe social anxiety during my early teens, where I was supposed to socialize and interact with other people a lot (including women), kinda fucked me up a bit, as despite being much better now, I still know very little women.
I just want to get it over with, desu.
Is it degenerate, /adv/? What do I do?
>degenerate
What does that mean and why is it bad?
I did this and honestly the best advice is make sure you are doing it because you simply want sex not an emotional connection, because if you're confusing wanting a relationship for wanting sex going down the prostitute route could fuck you up
OP here.
I just read somewhere that you can get genital herpes even if you were a condom? Can anyone confirm this?
Fuck me, how safe is this?
>>18198635
This op.
He is a smart man.
>>18198653
Don't fuck a hooker
>>18198653
If the person is having an immediate outbreak. It's pretty obvious. No sores, you're in the clear.
>>18198635
also the emotional connection can happen, she is a woman after all
>>18198653
>you can get genital herpes even if you were a condom
Are you a condom?
>>18198621
Are you depressed? Try electro shock therapy
>>18198621
No you should stop being a degenerate faggot, and start working on yourself.
>>18198887
Did you really have trouble understanding what he meant?
You can do that shit on leddit, please don't do it here.
>>18198629
It means behavior that takes us back as a species rather than improve
>>18198621
I'm in a similar situation, and have one very important tip for you: with paid sexual experiences, you really get what you paid for.
I just went to an erotic massage two days ago, and the price was one of the lower ones in the market. Hoooly Jesus Christ, the girl was *ugly*. She was like, a 4, with tons of makeup on which made her a 4.5. Saggy tits; saggy ass; jelly roll pot belly. Worst of all she was not nice at all and zero customer service. It was meant as a babystep experience to get me comfortable with sex, but now I feel traumatized.
There are high class establishments that focus heavily on quality and customer experience by the girls. If you decide to lose it to an escort, I really recommend saving up and going high.
There was a thread about this with really great info in it by an anon: >>18162538