Okay so I've been a virgin for 23 years of my life, and I recently got a gf, who sucked my dick today and as much as I thought I'd come instantly once a girl touches my dick it just didn't happen.
I'm always furiously stroking my dick before i cum. Does that mean that's the only way I CAN cum? Did I fuck this up by my masturbation habits? How can we work this out?
>>18196432
Kek
>>18196432
uh, yeah, dude. stop masturbating. jesus. no porn, no fap, don't even let her touch you for two weeks, don't even look at your dick for two weeks, nigga
>>18196432
Blow jobs arnt that pleasurable tbqh famalam
>>18196469
You should he fine OP. This guy is fucking with you. The nerves that you've damaged in your dick aren't going to get any better though
>>18196491
I'm not fucking with anyone, friend. Your dick can regain some sensitivity if you aren't senselessly mauling it every day, and not fapping for a week (temporarily) causes a major spike in T, increased T and increased sensitivity should let this poor bastard bust a nut in his girl's mouth
even if I'm wrong, is it not worth giving a shot? are you so degenerate that you can't stop jerking off for a week or two?
Stop thinking so hard about it, you'll just psych yourself out when the time comes. For most guys it is hard to cum from a blowjob.
This happened to me my first time, I think it's partly psychological and partly from training yourself how to cum from masturbation. You might want to try masturbating with a gentler grip using only the first two fingers and thumb, also more slowly. The other half of it is just getting used to being with another person. I would skype with the girl I lost my virginity to and jerk off in front of her, sometimes it would be difficult because I got nervous at having an audience, but I got used to it after a little bit. The next time I saw her and we had sex there was no issue anymore.
Good. You shouldn't jizz when you fuck a girl. It lowers your testosterone and makes you more feminine in her eyes. I fuck a different woman every few days and haven't cum in almost a year.
>>18196432
Quit masturbating and chilax. Probably a mix of nerves and too much jerking off.
Had the same problem. Just stop fapping and get sensitivity back + you will learn to cum slowly. It could take several tries and maybe many times sex to cum by hand or blowjob.
>>18196500
>causes a major spike in T
single study, no control. kys
I rarely cum with my gf. It fucking sucks to pretend but w/e.
>>18198283
how the fuck you guys fake cumming... I cum buckets so there is no fucking way my partner will not notice