Nonexistent Sex life

3 months is long enough. She needs to confront her feelings. She should care enough about the relationship to not let it crumble because of this, and thats where communication comes in.

>>18196245
Why was she looking at your laptop?
Why is she mad because you're looking at porn?
Why can't she talk about it?

It is all fucking ridiculous.

>>18196245
What porn?

>>18196269
just some vanilla shit

>>18196252
whole situation happened over a year ago

>>18196257
-she wanted to play some videogames and her laptop is shit
-because women I guess
-insecure/humiliated/being a woman?

what sort of porn, so freaky she's now put off you?

If not and she's just pissed at you looking at porn full stop, keep trying to talk for a while. If that don't work just leave, lack of sex and communication breeds resentment. why both suffer for longer than needs be.

>>18196272
>because women I guess
>insecure/humiliated/being a woman?

That's not really a reason.
Talk to her, insist you need to sort this out. If she's unwilling to work on it, leave. Not because of the lack of sex, but because you're dating a baby.

>>18196272
>vanilla shit
Bull shit. She wouldn't no sex you for 3 months and you post sad panda for """vanilla shit"""
Come clean, faggot

>>18196245

I've had it happen twice. Once it stops the relationship is nearly over. No point fighting it, pal.

>>18196245
>am I in a situation that will only get worse?
The finding porn is an excuse.
My xwife's excuse for stopping sex was finding out I'd had sex with a certain woman she hated 15 years earlier before we were even engaged. It never got better.
I finally got the balls to get a divorce.
Holy fuck life got good. I had more sex in 2 months than I'd had the previous 5 years combined, with women 15 years younger than my xwife.
Should have got rid of her years earlier.

>>18196274
you must not talk to very many women

>>18196314
I started dating my boyfriend when he just got out of a sexless marriage. The face he did when I made him come for the first time was amazing.

>>18196321
I am a girl, I do talk to a few.
I still think that if there's an issue in the relationship and one of the partners is unwilling to talk about it, the relationship is not worthy.

>>18196245
Yes. I was 20, she was 18. We got an apartment together. After moving out on my own for the first time I thought my life would turn into a fuckfest. We had been dating for about a year before moving out together.

Her excuse was "I'm never in the mood anymore" which, I guess isn't an actual excuse, but just reality. However, she also was unwilling to talk about it. Whenever I told her how I felt about it she just said "I don't think sex is important." Or she would accuse me of only caring about sex, ignoring the parts where I said I felt rejected, unwanted, etc, hurt that she wouldn't even consider my feelings.

We broke up after 6-8 months of near sexlessness. She moved out last month (I'm 21 now). We have sex pretty much whenever I want, she buys me food, cleans my apartment, and is basically a model girlfriend again, now that she is no longer my girlfriend.

I'm convinced that she viewed sex as a tool in her arsenal to get compliance out of me. She only wanted to fuck me if I was being a good boy, doing exactly what she wanted. So I know if we ever get back together, the sex will stop.

PS. I guarantee there are other issues in your relationship, not just sex. Sex is just a very visible litmus for relationship health. There were plenty of problems in our relationship aside from sex. Lots of resentment over things left unsaid and all that. But I'm sure she isn't the kind to want to talk about that either.

Maybe she is turned off you entirely. My ex was a porn addict who had zero sexual charisma or drive because of porn and knowing he watched it despite having a broken dick was a huge turn off. Which is why he is now an ex.

>>18196331
>I started dating my boyfriend
Yep.
My marriage made me bitter towards all women.
Between my girlfriends incredible bed skills and the fact that she actually appreciated it when I paid for things (instead of acting like it was her due and being pissed I didn't pay more) my opinion of women changed.
Been married to her 5 years now. She occasionally stops by the office to get laid before going home to the kids.
Last night she also brought sushi
Life is good.

>>18196272
>because being a woman i guess
>insecure/humiliated/being a woman?
my man these are not just caused by being a woman. im afraid your gf is just retarded and you might be too for thinking this shits normal

If she feels left out of your sex life, like you're choosing porn over her in some way or actively hiding it, being a creep about it...then yes it will have a negative outlook on it.
If you are open and inclusive of her, treat porn like an accessory then she wouldn't be so mad.

I have a feeling that you were being a creep about it.