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I work in a company with many employees. Three years ago I started a relationship with one of my co-workers, who still continues, she is an excellent woman, a good and faithful mother. Everyone in the company loves her and they are very happy with our relantionship. Her family and her son love me so everything became very serious. The problem is that our work demands a lot of time from us and also she having a child ocupies most of the short free time. she needs to be with him, so cause that our intimacy and time together is little, even I know that she is one girl in a million and the Woman with whom I want to spend the rest of my life with, but in hte last monthsthis to see us little out of work unconsciously has moved me away from her to the point of starting to have feelings for another girl who works in the same place we are just friends for now . Although I suppress what I feel I think more in this girl than in my girlfriend now .and I feel that she feels the same but I do not know if I take a step, out of fear that someone in the company will find out and tell my girlfriend and this would hurt her a lot and she doesnt deserves it And I would see myself as a demon at the eyes of all coworkers and family alike. I can not stop repressing my feelings for the other girl, the only thing we both do is look at each other at work.
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>>18196229
>I think more in this girl
Your spanish is showing!
Anyway, whatever you do, don't cheat. Have you talked to your gf about the lack of intimacy? How old is her kid?
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>>18196229
I don't think you're a bad guy or anything - I preface with this because my post will sound harsh.
One sure way to ruin a woman and mother as wonderful as you've described is if she lets a man with frivolous feelings into her heart and her family. Leave her now. She's an adult, she'll get over it. She doesn't need a boyfriend. She needs a husband and father for her child.
The fact that you realize what an amazing woman and mother she is isn't enough to qualify you as the love of her life. Anyone can recognize something wonderful when they see it. But you don't sound built for her needs.
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>>18196238
>spanish is showing!
>Anyway, whatever you do, don't cheat. Have you talked to your gf about the lack of intimacy? How old is her kid?
10
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>>18196243
she is all of that things plus is georgeous, im so stupid, but i cant help it,I thought I could sacrifice some things, since a woman like that would be worth it. But something inside me fail me. I feel that it would be incredible even if it is to kiss the other girl. I put excuses in my mind for this to happen, things like; She can keep the secret, everything will be fine, etcetera, but I know it is very possible that everything will be a disaster if I act like this.
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>>18196238
yes we talk about that, but child is obviosly priority .Currently there is no possible solution
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>>18196243
thank you
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