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Breaking up

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So I want to break up with my gf. I'm okay with it, I really am. But she depends on me so emotionally, so completely and I know that she will be an emotional disaster, even wreck after I do it.
There is no answer I can give her that will make her think it's not her fault, any answer that will make her okay.
What I'm asking is, how can I do it gently? I still care for her, but she is a risk to herself, and her friends are in not equipped to help her with this, I know them too. I don't know how to break up with her.
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>>18194345
cheat on her
get caught
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Fake your own death or tell her you are gay.
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lmao, there is no way you can break up gently.
just remember, you are not responsible for anyone's actions but your own. if you think she will commit sudoku, you call up the police.
you are not obliged to save anyone, senpai.
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>>18194345
Just bring her to a place that doesn't have allot of memories attached to it, because woman are very attached to memories, and just say your done with the relationship. You lost feelings for her.
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>>18194345
>how can I do it gently?
you can't. your happiness or her happiness, anon.
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>>18194374
I feel like I am though. Thanks anyone, I will remember that

>>18194377
Definitely neutral ground is where I'm doing it.

>>18194386
As harsh as that sounds, it probably does come down to that.
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>>18194345
I'm not sure how much this will help, but maybe talk to her friends and family beforehand. Just explain yourself politely and give them a heads up. Even if they are ill-equipped, if they at least aware of what's to come they can maybe look out for her a little more.

Also when you do give her the news, you probably should not use the cliche "It's not you it me" line. Try to explain that life is an unorganized mess and emotion and attractions can come and go like the tides.
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>>18194429
They have no family, and their friends are emotional at best. But I'll try to appeal to them.

I wouldn't, that's a cop out. I'll tell it straight.
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