I'm not in college right now, so I don't know where I'm supposed to meet girls. They say the answer is to, "Get active in your community!" but I honestly don't think that's going to get me laid. I'd like to imagine someone out there would fuck me again. When I was in school, or even group fuckin' therapy, it always happened. Now I have some jobs that are above my years, and I sit at home with no sex. Fuckin' please advise.
>>18193372
getting active in your community is a great way to meet girls and date, which of course leads to sex, but its not a good way to get sex in and of itself, especially if you're above the college years.
the best option for legit hook up is the traditional bar and club. thats where girls go when they're willing to have sex, and alcohol certainly helps
>>18193379
It's good to be involved in community activities. I honestly think people should be more involved in community activities, so it can become more normal and hip. I'm 22...I'm 22 and I just said hip.
Are people going to bars and clubs because they work? I always found it to be silly. I might be too much of an introvert to hook up at clubs. I've always gotten dates by just talking to women and being friendly with them.
>>18193389
>are people going to bars and clubs because they work?
some people. most people are going because its just a generic social place where you can just come as you are. even if you don't drink alcohol you're still welcome.
most people don't want a 'niche' activity. they just want to relax after working all day/week, talk with their friends, potentially tlak to other friends... and if they meet some ladies along the way, thats even better.
so why would they go anywhere else? on top of that booze makes people more uninhibited. you don't realize how much easier it is to get iwth women even with just half a beer or some wine. it makes them lower their guard, stop thinking in the societal way, and just want ot have fun. by the time they sober up, they've already decided they like you.
>introvert
introvert just means you recharge with alone time, not that you can't go into a bar.
>ive always gotte dates by just talking to women and being friendly with them
then go talk to women and be friendly with them.
>>18193372
>"How do I meet girls?"
>"Go meet people and do things"
>"No that won't work"
Well. We tried.
>>18193433
>>18193372
Aim for wizardry. Having any relationship is beyond you