decided to end my 240 days of nofap.
tldr: looking for advice from learned anons to make the experience better
the main reason I stopped was that I didnt really get much pleasure from it, I either did it on the toilet/shower.
Tried laying down, hated cum touching my belly, instantly ruined it for me, and had no way to do it in bed without making a mess (socks still leaked).
Looking for some advice, coming while laying down felt godlike, not even close to the other ways, but the problem was the aftermath
pls respond, my depression is at its worst and I decided to get back the only pleasure in my life
>>18192373
You should bust a nut atleast twice a week. Your testicals produce billions of new sperm cell on a dailey basis and to much build uo for a mature man could lead to sterilization issues aswell as lower testosterone leveles and higher estrogen. Dont listen to most these fags and go haveyou T/E levels tested, don't be suprised if anything bad comes up. Blue balls are real man.
Get a prostate massager.
>>18192509
I already said I wanna stop abstaining. i was looking for advice on how to make it a bit better since I still live with my parents and that limits me somewhat
also, wet dreams have been a regular occurrence, so that is not a problem
please someone
>>18192373
I think the longest i ever went was ~30 days. 1st cum kinda hurts after such long period and is meh. So my advice is fap quickly to the point. Fap the next day will be much better anyway on
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>>18192619
how. my post asked for ways to make it good, seeing how I'm in a shitty situation
i dont care about 1st 2dn or 3rd time and what should happen
I'm thinking of doing what is called a "posh wank". aka jerking off with a condom on. would solve the cleanup problem and make it good
>>18192373
Well if your going to do it laying down. Before you do the deed just grab some toilet paper, and before the baby gravy pours out have the tissue paper ready in hand, and put it up to the pee hole. That way the mess is avoided, and the used paper can be safely discarded.
As for making it more pleaserable you could look into getting a sex toy of sorts.
>>18192661
>just grab some toilet paper
I dont know if I cum too much or what but that does not work. one time I made this fucking thing made up of several absorbing papers into a receptacle and it still leaked and made a mess
>>18192697
Hmm I never had that problem. Infact I can make it so it shots into the toilet.
>>18192373
What I always do is getting a baby wipe and laying it next to me. When I'm about to cum I pull it over my dick; it prevents the possible mess and it smells nice.
You can use condoms too, but the lube and smell is fucking nasty.
>>18192760
In addition to that: since baby wipes are pH-neutral and are able to slide due to their moistness, you can use them for the final stage of masturbating. That's how I'm doing it for years.
I'm genuinely astonished how nobody thinks to masturbate/finish it off like that.
>>18192782
And it would look less conspicuous than having a bunch of condoms in the trash can.
>>18192811
This, and you should flush the used baby wipes anyways since the smell of old cum is abhorrent as fuck.
>>18192373
Fap into tissues or toilet paper and don't focus on cumming, lasting as long as you can makes it more enjoyable and is probably good practice for actual sex, in theory (I'm a kv)
That's my only real advice, I have a crude technique but it's mostly tailored to my cutfag cock.
Anyways, how's nofap? That's one of the longest periods I've heard someone abstaining, any benefits?