>have ltr bf of 6.5 years >about 3 months ago we were talking

>>18189838
I don't really know. Positive reinforcement is always nice. "I love how you eat my pussy" would be something nice to hear. I rather rim a girl than lick her pussy desu.

>>18189879
He just doesn't even touch me in the first place. What is there to reinforce if he doesn't do anything...

My sex drive is dropping so hard. Because I already know what he's going to ask for and what he's not going to do...

>>18189838
You two are not sexually compatable with each other.

I usually take the guys side because women are overentitled and their expctations are usually far out of line with reality, but this one really doesn't sound like your fault - unless you are leaving something out. Have you brought up to him that you like it when he fingers you and wish he would do it more?

How much do you weigh? How often do you eat junk food? Being fat makes your pussy naturally smell worse, so does what you eat. Garbage in, garbage out. Vegans/vegetarians have best tasting pussies.

Just tell him everything you've told us man.
Sounds like he's gotten lazy. Tell him he doesn't have to go down on you, but if he's not gonna put the effort into getting you off then you're not gonna put the effort into getting him off.
Don't let him stick it in ya if you aren't getting anything in return.

>>18189838
Yeah, you may just be incompatible. He may, to some degree, be taking you for granted because of how long you've been together. It won't change unless you push him to change.

>>18189908
>vegans/vegetarians have best tasting pussies
oh man, true that. I had a one night stand with a vegetarian girl and she tasted amazing--so clean and fresh; almost tasteless, except for that slight, subtle feminine smell.

talk to him, don't be vague, think of the communication trias:
>Short, direct, kind
Don't forget to mention, that sex sucks for you and you think about leaving his Ass for the bad sex. If you don't say that, you surprise him if you decide to leave and basically take away the only chance to save your LTR because you were to nice to be honest.

My 2 cents, you got a very selfish and lazy guy, you sure you wanna go on with him? Personally I believe in sharing the housework, but if you don't think like me just stay with him, he will not move a finger to help you with kids or household chores, that is for sure.

Waiting on those posts with: " How come guys that don't do foreplay have a GF but I don't"

>>18189908
We've been sexually compatible for the past 6+ years. Like, the sex has been really great for a long time. We literally cherished the sexy time and did it several times a week. I mean, I had no complaints until recently. Sudden decline. Might be stress on his part now that I think of it.

And because it started with him telling me he doesn't like to eat me out, it made my sexual self esteem fall.

I weigh 127 and I am 5'2 and I don't eat out, don't drink soda, and work out regularly. I already know my pussy doesn't smell.

>>18189947
As I have said, and I am pretty sure I said this in the OP, this is recent. Hasn't been 6 years of bad, selfish sex.

>>18190184
Guess I should have given more context that I have always been the submissive one in our sex life. I wasn't complaining here:
>And honestly, him-receiving foreplay was most of our foreplay, but he'd at least touch me and kiss me and be playful and he was interactive with me

Our sex life functioned off of me submissively pleasing him, but the turn on for me in this was that he was also giving me affirmation and pleasing me in return.

Now that that affirmation and reciprocity is out of the picture, it's basically all take and no give for him. Which has totally taken the oomph out of our sex life for me.

>>18189838
Step one. Accept he doesnt want to do oral. Most guys don't.
But you can get him to understand theres more to foreplay than oral and that you'd like him to touch you more.
Why do women make everything so hard.

>>18190184
I can't help you but I'm in the same position op. I went through 3 years of giving him head every day and only getting it once a year maybe. I feel ashamed of my body and even though he's finally trying his best to please me, I feel like it's a lie or that I smell or he hates it. I can't relax and enjoy anything.

How I got him to do it more was basically by crying and raising bloody hell until he finally got that it was serious (this sounds silly. I tried talking, encouraging, coxing first of course, then out right cut him off unless he made an effort) and now when he makes an effort I encourage him.

You need to be aware though that self esteem is huge for the woman and he may have permanently damaged yours. I'm in the process of trying to rebuild mine but once they say "I don't like it" you'll never believe a "oh suddenly its ok"

Take a look at his whole personality. Its fair that you want your needs met.

Sorry from someone that had to fight your battle too, it doesnt end well unless you resolve this right away before you start to resent him.