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how do i handle this 2017-04-04 05:33:50 Post No. 18188890
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>dad's ex wife is a textbook narcissist
>divorced two years ago
>when they moved out of their rental she "accidentally" took some of dad's stuff
>stuff has no value to her (irreplaceable photos and family heirlooms)
>held this stuff hostage to dad for two years, refused to meet up like adults and give it to him, told him she destroyed the stuff, told him she has it in a storage, etc.
>she reached out to me about a month ago and asked if I we could meet up and I get the stuff
>I said okay, thinking this would be an easy transaction
>every weekend she has told me to save time for us to meet, she gives me a location we can meet at, I save the date
>only for her to cancel just an hour or two before
>she's done this to me every weekend for a month
>I have made time in my schedule to do this, and she cancels every damn time
>be today
>she wants to meet up at a random ass apartment over an hour (in traffic) from where I live
>unsure if she will cancel on me
>really wanted to bring my bf or just anyone with me so I'm not alone because she's a psycho
>everyone can't come with me because they're at work
If she cancels on me, what do? I am so fed up with this. I know if I show frustration towards her, she just immediately martyrs herself and threatens "W-well, I am just trying to give your dad his stuff back, if you don't want it I'll just throw it out." However, I feel like she's just gonna keep giving me the run around.
But, if this actually goes through, is meeting up with her alone a good idea? Should I tell her I can't until someone can come with me? A little back story, she tried to claim that my dad beat her when he didn't lay a hand on her, and literally almost destroyed his reputation considering the field he works in.
wat do
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>>18188890
Also, the apartment she wants to meet at, it isn't even her living area. It's literally a random apartment as far as I know. Maybe her friend's place, I have no idea. Also the exit is like bumfuck nowhere. Not even a restaurant for miles. I asked if we could meet up at a public place, and she said the front of the apartment is "public"
The whole thing has got me creeped out and I don't wanna go alone. If I cancel on her, we'll probably never see this stuff.
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Ya, you're going to die.
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>>18188890
Physical possessions aren't worth risking safety over, just let it be until/unless she'll meet you somewhere you're comfortable with, or you can bring someone with you.
It's just not worth risking your safety, and I'm sure your dad would rather you are safe than have the stuff.
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just stick up for yourself a little
there's a middle ground between telling her off and doing whatever she says
just stick up for yourself a little
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Yea, I went with my gut and cancelled. I told her a weekend would be better. I didn't say because i want someone there with me because I know that will make her defensive.
I'm gonna tell my dad that he either goes with me and just stays in the car or I'm going to have my bf go with me whenever he can.
Just feels too weird
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