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Different morals on sex

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I'll give you the fast details and if need be go into more detail
>meet girl in college
>shes fairly hot
>somewhat of a feminist but my dick doesnt care
>Hanging out and having a lot of fun
>She gives me that look like she wants me to kiss her and I go for it
>tells me not to go too fast
>spend valentines day together
>basically dating but I have not officially asked her to be my gf
Thats the premise. What happened later is I was hanging out with her and her friends, and they were laughing about women selling their virginity for 1 million dollars and how they would all do it.
This triggered me and I told her later that its a huge red flag and it sparked an argument.
Am I being crazy. Because we are this close to dating and I'm really thinking of calling it off.
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Kill youself
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>>18186322
You posted wrong details of the story. It is irrelevant if she is gf or not. What matters is her viewpoint on selling virginity, your viewpoint and why does it bothers you so much that you want to dump her over it (and i bet they meant that as a joke anyway).
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>>18186328
Well it kinda is. I wouldn't care if I didn't feel invested in this girl. I would have just walked away. But I do like her, and she likes me.
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>>18186332
You didnt read my post, did you?
You cant start discussion like this. Read it again and try again.
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>>18186348
i did. You didnt add anything unless Im missing some implication you are making.
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>>18186322
>somewhat of a feminist
>selling their virginity

You do not like the hypocrisy, but you want a girlfriend. Keep the friendship, but it sounds like you might not be happy together in the longterm. If the topic comes up, ask how much you would have to pay her to officially become your girlfriend.
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>>18186348
>not that anon
What are you retarded? >Expecting women to have congruence in their political or social ideals.
WEW
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Women will say one thing and do another without skipping a beat then rationalize it later. These women are going to sleep around until they are no longer sexually viable then they'll bitch about Muh patriarchy. The best thing I'd suggest you do is start banging girls until you have a good amount of experience under your belt.
>inb4 she's different from the otha gurls!
She isn't anon she's like every other woman. she'll follow the current trends and do what she thinks will give her the validation she seeks i.e virtue signal. Always remember, treat a lady like a whore and a whore like a lady. Also bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks.
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Well if you feel strongly one way about something and she feels strongly the other way then yeah, it's a pretty big red flag or whatever you want to call it.

It doesn't really matter who's right and who's wrong (well not that anyone can truly be right or wrong when it comes to subjective matters), what matters is how this disagreement is making you feel. And if it's making you feel negatively about her then you're not really crazy. This kind of ideology difference should be avoided in a partner, especially if the two of you are not exactly tolerant when it comes to different ideologies. And, might I add, very few people are actually tolerant of ideologies contradicting their own, even though they wouldn't admit it.
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>>18186420
This issue is this could be a joke. Like she might never do it, but think she would, or think its okay for others to do it. I might be blowing it out of proportion but it feels like a huge red flag.
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>>18186322
I've dated a feminist girl before; recommend running away
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>>18186825
>5
Shes not hardcore sjw. She just likes to think of herself as enlightened.
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>>18187349
Shit you 2 may as well be dating because you're in here sticking up for this bitch with rose tinted glasses on.

>Anons point out flaws

>OP fucking defends his girl "oh but shes not THAT bad

Nigga you already are dating at this point. Good luck, because you're fucked now
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>>18187374
What. All Im pointing out is you guys mistook somewhat feminist for crazy pink hair anita feminist.
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>>18187396

>Anons - Dude doesn't sound like you'll be happy in the long run, I'd cut your losses, or just stick as friends

>You - OH BUT SHES DIFFERENT SHES NOT THAT BAD!

You've already made up your mind but don't want to admit it. Just ask her out and enjoy your new serving of misery
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>>18186322

So you got triggered because a girl and a bunch of her friends were joking about a hypothetical situation in which someone offered them 1 million for their virginity?

Have you never had a "Would you suck a dick for a million dollars" joke conversation with your friends?

You're a gigantic retarded baby. Although, you are right about one thing, there is a huge red flag here; she is interested in a doofus like you. That doesn't say good things about her judgement.
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>>18186322
>somewhat of a feminist but my dick doesn't care
Your morals don't sound that high.
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>>18187405
>Have you never had a "Would you suck a dick for a million dollars" joke conversation with your friends?
THE HELL!
>>18187409
What does that quote have to do with feminism.
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>>18186397
>You do not like the hypocrisy, but you want a girlfriend
It's not hypocritical (at least that bit). A big part of feminism is bodily autonomy, or being able to do what you want with your body. That's why so many are pro-choice, sex positive, etc. But no two feminists are the same as there are some that are anti-porn, anti prostitution, etc.
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>>18187657
OP is a faggot
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>>18186322
>What happened later is I was hanging out with her and her friends, and they were laughing about women selling their virginity for 1 million dollars and how they would all do it.
That's how friends generally talk to each other. Part of the joke is that no one would ever offer them a million because they're not top tier women. Also, you're in college. College typically leaves people in debt, so money woes are a common thing to complain about.
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OP sounds like a massive faggot.
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>>18187676

>le objectification!
>let me literally sell my body or you're sexist ;)
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>>18187685
If it was just banter it could have ended at
>its just a joke bro relax
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>>18187676
Sex trafficking as modern slavery means that pro-prostitution views are decisively not feminism.
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>>18188540
Human trafficking is an issue and it is tied to sex work but not all sex workers are slaves. Feminism is inherently pro-prostitution and against human trafficking because both are opposites of the same coin: body autonomy.

>>18186384
He was asking what your views were on virginity and sex, and asking for a further explanation of the issue at hand. You didn't clearly explain your feelings here. Why is this a red flag for you? Was the conversation serious? What is the conflict here? We can't help you if you don't explain the problem clearly.
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>>18188540
Sex trafficking is to prostitution what rape is to sex.
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