Girlfriend was a sex worker

>>18186005
>It seems easier for me because I'm not in it for love

Keep with it, you sound like you're in love.

The only people who cannot handle that kind of relationship are adoptees.

>>18186005
Go for it.
As long as her mind isn't damaged, a woman with a sex worker background is much more practical and realistic than most women.
My wife was pimped out by her mother when she was a pre-teen. Naturally, she got married early, divorced, and had a wild early 20s.
I met her in my mid 30's after getting divorced from a horrible woman who totally followed the Feminist lifestyle.
My intention was to play around much more as a single guy, but future new wife calmly explained to me that she was much better than all other women and proceeded to prove it.
On the very few times we've had arguments, I've told her what angered me and she just said OK and changed it. Occasionally she's directly told me "I don't like this" and I've changed it. None of the normal "what's wrong honey?" "Nothing!" crap most women do.

>>18186005
>all women are prostitutes to a certain extent
yes.
And all men are pervs.
If you both understand that relationship you can have a happy marriage. She's a prostitute, so you had better keep earning money and protect her. She must keep you happy and satisfied and bear your children.

>>18186005
>I am incapable or love
Do not think that being logical makes you incapable of love. "Love" is used as an excuse for all sorts of emotional stupid actions. I used to think I was incapable of love because I never stopped using logic for my actions. Then I had children and I guarentee I can love.

A human goes through a full cycle of cell replacement every 5 to 7 years. Soon, not even a single cell on her hands will have touched a cock, but she will still retain all that experience.

She's fine man. Make no fuss about it and enjoy getting something that most of us would like from on our own prostitutes.

Lucky lucky

>>18186005
Why not, people move on and change, pretty sure she is enjoying this now more than giving random customers hj's.
You act like she's yours but you're head over heels and proud aren't you?

>>18186005
If I were a virgin and I was dating her Id break up.
But you aren't and she was. A few handjobs won't bother me. I say this as someone who has only had sex with two people and would never date someone who has slept with more than 4 or 5. Theres no reason for you not to. You don't have an emotional attachment to her that her handjob history violates. Id probably have a problem with her, but thats because of my views on sex which is conservative. Her past clearly violates the importance of a relationship imo but not yours. Theres no problem for you.

>>18186066
you lucky son of a bitch

Ask yourself this: Do I want this girl over any other?

You seem to be over thinking it. I can't' condone marriage, but I think she sounds like a fine partner. And for the record: saying you are incapable of love makes you sound like a dick.

I personally would break up with her but she sounds okay so if you don't care then you don't care. I wouldn't dupe her into marriage just to use her but other than that, if you like her and her past doesn't bother you then why are you even asking?

>>18186066
I'm dating an exheroin addict and the open communication thing is insanely nice

>>18186372
The big q: sexist or insecure?

If you're so incapable of love and only need her for convenience, why the fuck do you care???

That edginess isn't changing anything about her past as a professional masturbator, so quit the act

>>18188458
?????????

>>18188481
exactly. OP shouldn't be so choosey. He's looking for an arrangement beneficial to both and so what she jacked some guys off for money. Think of your average american 20 year old girl that has gangbanged for sport, sucked dozens of guys off for nothing in return and looking for a freeride while she slips off to fuck her black weed dealer when you are at work.

The question nobody asks:

What's in it for her?
You don't love her yet she cooks, cleans, massages, and sexes with you.
It's not all about you, so what are you giving her in return?

>>18188818
the real question is how can i learn to give hj's like that without bwing a sex worker?

>>18188834
I guess just find someone and learn from them

>>18188837
find a sex worker?

i have a bf. and i aks him how to do stuff and observe how he does it. i still think i can improve a lot...

>>18186005
>I don't love her, I am incapable of love.
Don't cut yourself on that edge.

>>18188834
Agreed

Op is gonna marry a prositute he doesn't love because her hj's are just that good.

She must give a really good handjob.

>>18188752
Are you dumb or just acting like it? Pretty sure my comment was clear.

>>18186005
I dont think its such a big deal desu, as you at least a guarantee that her handjobs will always be pretty good.

I dont understand why americans see sex as this very taboo topic, especially when youre on the brink of actually benefitting from all her time spent practicing that specific skill, which you yourself have a good use for!

If she fits you fine personally and you can see the rest of your life with her, then why not. If you still have doubts, talk about them with her and give it time to see where it goes.

I understand this problematic, but i think that it is entirely solvable.

Good Luck OP.

>>18186005
Who the fuck cares what other people think. Does she make you happy? Can you live with that fact? If the answer is yes then you have a great girl on your hands. Its not like she will be telling everyone you introduce her too.
If it was me would be ecstatic. Sounds like the perfect skill set in a nice submissive girl that hasn't had a lot of partners vaginally.