>am asexual but can still fall in love
>cant keep it up, ever
>girls will never stay with me because they need vitamin d in order to be happy
>too much pride to allow them to fuck other guys
All I want is a qt to kiss and cuddle and have good conversations with
>>18185759
Find an asexual girl.
>>18185775
How?
>>18185795
On asexual dating websites, or setting "asexual" as your preferences on normal dating websites.
>>18185759
Asexual is a person capable of doing sex, but he simply has no desire to do so even when very attractive partner is next to him cuddling him and asking him if the asexuality thing is real.
What you have described seems like erectile disfunction or low libido.
Post
Age
Gender
Fat?
Sport?
Food?
Medication?
And if you have secondary sex things like pubes, boobs, deep voice etc so we can see the puberty hitted you properly.
>>18185827
I'm the same guy as in the last thread about the medications.
Truth is I never felt sexual attraction. But I could still get my dick up when seeing porn. Even though I felt nothing inside, my body still responded. Now my body stopped responding too and that caused me to panic.
>>18185856
Lol, this why we have threads system. It is not like you gained entirely new problem totally not related to your mental ones :-D
>now i feel like cheated /adv/isor
So you want to cuddle? You crave that human touch? Are you sure you are ready and emotionally stable for relationship?
>>18185873
After 9 years of severe depression I'm finally ready for it yes. And thanks again for trying to help me out. Appreciate it m8.
>>18185878
Well first you need to decide how permanent is your medication. Because you know asexuals are as rare as unicorns even amongst
>>>/lgbt/
and if you ever stopped taking happy pills, your libido could return and then you would be stuck with nice caring asexual gf where you would be horny frustated male. So i am afraid that is wrong path to take.
I suggest you to just date ordinary girls and once the sex part comes down, you can explain to them your situation. Also the part
>I felt nothing inside
seems very troubling for me. And you can always satisfy horny girl via other means like tongue, hand, vibrator whatever.
How do you even plan to snatch qtie in your current state?
>>18185759
>am asexual but can still fall in love
Read and write about romance so you have the right things to say, when the opportunity comes, to fall in love.
>cant keep it up, ever
Start running or use a stair stepper. Sit less an exercise your pelvic muscles.
>girls will never stay with me because they need vitamin d in order to be happy
Take vitamin D supplements with a source of calcium. Get out in the sun more often.
>too much pride to allow them to fuck other guys
That is not a problem, you are supposed to be that proud, they use your jealousy as a test of how much you love them- even after they cause you angst.
>>18185897
Trying other means of bring sexual satisfaction is a good idea, but I'm afraid they'll see me as less manly if they I can't use use my dick. It would be a humiliation to use a vibrator.
I'm content being alone for the most part, but it would be fun to have contact with a girl that also doesn't see me as less manly for not getting it up. But if I don't ever find one I'm happy enough to be alone. At some point I plan on becoming a Buddhist monk so the qt thing would be temporarily anyways. But it would still be fun.
>>18185924
>less manly
Dude, you are taking pills against schyzophrenia and depression. I am afraid you cant go much more lower than that in terms of masculinity.
I will give you ussual advice as to others here: dont wait for happines to come itself, because that never happens. Go date some qties. There are a lot of "crazy" girls like you so can fight with your inner deamons together.
I suggest you to go to some group therapies and snatch some crazy qtie there. Think about it. You dont have much to lose anyway.
>>18185955
That's a good idea actually. All the girls I was interested in were from the clinics.
Thanks bro
>>18186010
No problem bro.
>tfw no crazy qtie gf
>thankfully :-D