What do I do

>>18185504
Burn the coal, pay the toll

>>18185504
I'm sorry for this is going to be a tough pill to swallow.

He realized he could string you along and use you to reap the benefits and when you were of no more use or value to you, he simply discarded you. The way he broke up with you is a manipulation tactic so he could have an open door with you to come back at his leisure. Go no contact, ruin his life.

How would no contact help though? Why do we fall in love with people like this?

>>18185504
Same exact thing just happened to me by a girl of 5 years. He still cares about you but cannot bring himself to love you and nothing you can do will help convince him otherwise. Get closure by moving on. Let him go. It is ok to talk but know it is going to hurt, you can still be freindsish but know that the only way he may be able to love you again is if he does so out of his or your influence. Let him go and move on. He may come back. But dont wait for him.

>>18185527
We fall in love because we are genetically hardwired to do so. Same reason we fall out of love. We have no choice but to need others. Just keep in mind that the most successful relationship is by people who wish to belong, but can thive by themselves as well.