Confess my feelings?

Don't give some long confession, that's pretty much the worst thing a guy can do in this situation. If she didn't tell you she has a boyfriend then she's still single. Just ask her out, she'll probably reject you but at least she'll respect you for acting on your feelings instead of handing that responsibility to her.

Don't say anything. Nothing good will come out of it. She has a boyfriend! He's going to kick your ass if he finds out. And before the blahblahblah I could take him he's a skinny manlet... it's not a nice thing to do. You know she's taken. Stop talking to her so much. If she asks why things are weird, tell her you didn't know she had a boyfriend. If she asks why that matters, tell her it's because you thought she was single and interested in you. This will be enough to imply you have feelings for her. Also it might set you up to be the rebound if things go sour. Just don't encourage the friendship from this point.

If you don't give a fuck, ask her if she's got any single friends that'd be good for you. This works really well in that she solidifies the friendzone and helps, or dodges the request because she wants the attention for herself (what she's getting right now).

>>18182067
Yeah, I figured that pouring out my feelings would probably be a bad idea. Should I ask her over Facebook or something or wait until the next time we meet? Odds are her boyfriend would be around next time we're together (we're all in the same club), so I figure asking online might be better.

why does everyone use the word confess? as if its some super dramatic epic thing. you just want to stick ur dick in her , thats it. just tell her you want her. it leaves no room for questions

>>18182093
I mean, I'm pretty sure her boyfriend has seen us talking already, but it definitely is not nice to keep hitting on her. I know I wouldn't want some bitch boy flirting with her if we were dating. Maybe I could ask her if she does have a boyfriend, then if she says yeah I could tell her my date idea and ask if she'd want to double date with one of her single friends? Idk, it's a thought.

>>18182115
I mean, I am by definition of the word confessing my feelings, though you're right that it shouldn't be a big deal. I just couldn't think of a better thread name.

Bump, still looking for some advice

>>18182537
would you like some bitch boy trying to steal your girlfriend?

>>18182851
No... .__.

Maybe I could try to see if she'd be a wingman for me like the other anon suggested. If her friends are anything like she is, I'd probably like them too. I think I'd be cool with just being friends if she helped me find a date. I'm just not sure how to bring this up without being awkward as shit.