I had sex for the first time and it didn't feel good

>>18181946
This sounds pretty much par for the course.

sounds like you just didnt like her then

I love her and I have come to her hands and her mouth

^^OP speaking btw

>>18181949

What this guy said.

Don't worry about it, after a while you'll stop being nervous.

damn, how do awkward virgins like you find girlfriends?

this board is filled with stories of friendless and awkward people referring to their gf or ex

>>18182200
You just get out there and take chances. You can't be afraid of rejection because it will happen. It's a lot like job applications really. Just keep applying to places until you get in.

>>18181946
It is common the first time (of anything) for your brain to be so fascinated by the experience that it wants to take notes about everything, and turns off sensations so as not to be distracted. That's one reason why some guys are impotent the first sex, the first bj or whatever.

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>>18181953
Cute bait ;^)
>>18182212
Read this, Opie. Everyone's first time is super weird, you gotta practice.

I didn't even get hard in my first try. You have a sex life with you hand by the time you actually have sex, so it takes a while for your dick to recognize the new sensations. By the third time you'll probably be used to it and actually enjoy it

>>18182203
Yeah, but that's usually not what awkward guys are the best at.

I often read about people with no friends, but a gf/bf.

>>18182212
This is true, although if you also (literally) felt very little from her mouth you probably desensitized your dick with death grip.

>>18182326
>death grip
I knew there would be a bingo in here somewhere.

>>18182326
>>18182348
I'm a virgin, but having received several blowjobs, I never got the death grip meme. Even though I've furiously masturbated since the age of about 11, and I do death grip (mostly don't even pull my foreskin all the way back when wanking because dry glans) every time my penis has entered a mouth it has felt so fucking euphoric and I came relatively fast.

>>18182370
>euphoric
Me too senpai. Death grip is a feminism meme designed to shame men for having anxiety or having no experience.

>>18181946
My first time was enjoyable but I was able to cum. I could go on for hours without finishing. I had to stop masterbating and watching porn for a while.

>>18182382
It's mostly men detailing their issues with it and how they overcame it.

Besides, girls can also get desensitized from humping pillows or strong vibrators.

>>18182370
If you're still sensitive, obviously you don't grip too hard. Masturbating "furiously" isn't the problem, only how much pressure you put on your penis. Foreskin has nothing to do with it, either.

>>18182393

> Besides, girls can desensitised from humping pillows or strong vibrators.

Or masturbation in general. I had to stop altogether in order to just start getting turned on by subtler sexual context like I used to.

OP, you may want to stop masturbating and start having (more) sex with your girlfriend. Maybe not altogether, but a little bit. How often do you watch porn?

>>18182393
I've assumed that I death grip because often the lower part of my glans will feel sore. Not super painful or anything, just sore as if I masturbate way too much, and I mostly do it 1-2 times a day

Thanks guys (OP). Guess I should try to relax, layoff the twice-daily masturbation. Mainly just chill, though.

>>18181946
Same here.
Did more after that.
It's real nice now.
Didn't stop watching porn, if anything I'm watching more.