I want to be fine by myself instead of wanting to not be alone.
>>18181170
Achieve enlightenment/Nirvana/Moksha.
>>18181170
Allahu akbar
>>18182444
How the fuck do i do that
>>18181170
Goals. Broke up with a pretty much flawless girlfriend after a year because I couldn't find enough time for her while chasing mine and well, I don't like to admit it but it doesn't faze me too much.
>>18182444
>>18182445
Are valid ways too, although not very beneficial.
>>18182983
if you have to ask you'll never know
>>18183092
That sounds like some daodejing shit
>>18181170
you don't.
people don't lose weight by eliminating appetite. they just learn to be stronger than their urges, and find fulfillment through the accomplishments that happen as a result.
whatever you want in life is likely going to go against the animalistic instincts that say 'I WANT THIS RIGHT NOW SO YOU BETTER GO GET IT'.
we don't eliminate the animal inside of us. we just learn to control it.
>>18183299
>people don't lose weight by eliminating appetite, they just learn to be stronger than their urges
Jesus Christ, anon 10/10
>>18183299
>we don't eliminate the animal inside of us. we just learn to control it.
Then how do we control this? Not OP but i also want to be ok with being alone, its not healthy im lusting over my married friend