>meet guy online
>hit it off well
>really well
>i mean we have the same shit humor and everything so it's going pretty good
>constantly compliments me and always wants to talk
>all around seems kewl
>he starts hinting at lewd things occasionally
>sends lewdish pics too
>i let this slide but never lewd back myself
>we haven't even had our first date yet
does this guy just want to get in my pants and then sprint off like usain bolt or could it be he actually likes me? never really had dating experience before so no clue if being dirty like this before actually making things official still means he'd want to be serious
>>18180863
Just don't think about sex for a really long time, go full Christian on him. Then you'll know because he wouldn't stick around after a couple dates if he jut wanted fuck
If he's sending slightly lewd shit and you didn't go there at all, still arent, and haven't dated at all yet, that's a red flag
He's a man whore and you're a man whore as well for thinking anything else.
>>18180863
If you like him go with it and folow your heart. What's the worst that could happen.
>>18180877
Rape murder
>>18180869
yeah pretty much been ignoring it just to see if he still sticks around and keeps contact until we actually have dates and shit, guess i gotta let the act go on still and wait it out
>>18180870
neat thanks anon i get to be a man and a whore what a 2-in-1 deal
>>18180877
my heart's autistic and says yes but my brain says watch out because i'm already depressed enough and just being a human fleshlight to someone doesn't sound so comfy
>>18180884
>human fleshlight
Can I use this term in a porn I'm drawing ?
>>18180885
sure knock yourself out buddy
You should put him on the spot and ask him. Guys like that don't expect the woman to start questioning them, if he starts acting shady or uncomfortable he probably has poor intentions
Are you a virgin OP? Not wanting to be a slut is a laudible goal. Go and date him and tell him you are only going to sleep with someone you plan to marry. See how he reacts. He just flirty and playful. I mean id do stuff like that to girls I like bit I plan only to sleep with a girl I'll marry.
>>18181107
>putting someone right on the spot and asking
wew throwing shit aside and cutting to the chase would probably be best and save a lot of potentially wasted time but how would i go about bringing it up anon? do i just outright ask if his heart's the one that pulses for me or if its his dick?
>>18181135
am pure maiden and having my hymen get rekt by some betafag who doesn't know how to feel in any way other than physical feelings isn't part of my life goals, so waiting until commitment's sounding like a 10/10 plan
>>18181287
Tell him that yourbsaving yourself. Ask him seriously if you he just wants you as girlfriend for sex, or hes looking for something longterm
>>18181300
good stuff, seems simple enough to mention thanks anon
Im 63% sure im better than him, be my gf.
>>18180863
This girl I know did a similar thing, we didn't meet online, we were classmates, our relationship is going well. Before our we officially went out she totally ignored my sexual advances, I thought I was in the friendzone so I fucked another girl.