Possible relationship advice

I'd invite her for coffee

>>18179200
Listen to him op.

There is nothing to lose if you dont expects miracles to happen.

>>18179198
>scared
>since I saw another colleague lose interest in everything after a girl ditched him

What would you do if someone you loved ditched you, OP?

Does the risk mean you shouldn't love anyone?

>>18179200
>>18179215

She's more of a tea person.

Also, she seemed to be a bit reserved before I actually got to know her. So I don't know how open she will be to the idea of coffee

>>18179259
Just don't make it a big deal. Make up an excuse to meet up. Don't treat it like a date.

>>18179242

The thing is I haven't been in a proper relationship for almost 6 years now.

Sure, I had an attraction to a couple of girls but that was just on the physical level.
I don't want to screw up and lose a possible friendship as well.

>>18179263

I know this may seem dumb, but how exactly do I go about doing this?
She never comes for the company picnics nor for any of the after office informal meets either.
She practically runs home after closing time

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>>18179289
>One day we even spent 25 minutes discussing auto transmission cars(?) and politics among other things.
if this actually happened then the next time the two of you have a conversation ask her if she wants to grab some 'tea'. do it at the end of the conversation.

>In the beginning when she had just joined the place, I wasn't too interested in her and vice versa.
>However, after a couple of months I noticed she used to ask me for help even though there were more experienced people around her.
>One day we even spent 25 minutes discussing auto transmission cars(?) and politics among other things.

None of these indicate romantic interest. Period.