I went on a tinder date with a beautiful asian girl. we matched the day before, she was responding fast with complete sentences (you know it's uncommon on tinder). She asked me if she we can meet that same evening.
At the bar I was shy and awkward, she was beautiful, smiling and laughing a lot. we complimented each other for our looks and she encouraged me to drink more so that I loosen up.
At one point I thought that she was just messing with me and trying to break my heart, but at the end, arriving back from the bathroom, she had paid all our drinks. I walked her home and kissed her goodnight. She told me that I will have to play ''hard to get'' because that will make her more interested in me.
my question is: how do I play 'hard to get' without being some kind of asshole? Is this a sign of trouble? She already texted me back saying that I need to be a bad boy, I teased her a little bit then stopped responding. now we haven't communicated for 40h.
She gave me more than enough signs of interest (and I feel very fortunate for that), but what if she gets bored by my silence?
>>18177376
Hahahah
My sides.
Yeah, I know I am ridiculous. perhaps one of the 4 femanon in here could explain whats happening here
>>18177376
Oh, my. OP, you faggot.
>>18177376
She is playing with you as cat with mouse.
Ask her on another date tommorow and stop overthinking problems. Obey your soon to be gf. Buy condoms.
>>18177376
>gets told to be a bad boy
>does everything the girl wants him to
Honestly, if you want her be as nice as possible. This is like a double switch back reverse, where being an asshole is capitulating her, and being your normal nice self is rebellious.
Im assuming you are young OP.
Im 30, i dont play games or hard to get, i know im a good looking man whore. I make shit clear, i like to fuck and i usually fuck on the first date. I'm not telling you to be yourself im telling you to be clear and straight up.
She is looking for fun and adventure. If you're interested play her game. Think of adventurous stuff to do on a whim, dangerous but no trouble, no breaking the law. Go to the grocery store and stick stuff in people's carts when they are not looking. Go to the mall and stick cigarettes in the mannequins mouth or put underwear on the mannequins's head. You're not being destructive or breaking the law. Play hard to get by not being desperate for attention, be more like a friend but flirty. Don't take too long not to talk to her, she may find someone else. Girls love to have fun. Be spontaneous.
>>18178102
I'm 29, she's 27. I wanted to fuck on the first date, I was prepared for this because she was flirty when she asked to meet me on tinder. During the date I was shy and awkward which for me is a sign that she pleases me (when I'm perfectly confident it's because I'm not really attracted). So I told her all that, and she asked me if I'm the kind of guy who falls in love easily (I responded stupidly like, yeah maybe), thats where she told me that she prefers to have to work to get her man, instead of having it too easy (be h2g etc).
Later when I escorted her to her place (expecting to sleep with her), I kissed her and she was surprised by my sudden gain in confidence and ease (My shyness is really a defense mechanism, when I'm passed the first kiss I become another man). She told me that we should not sleep together on the first night, and I was fine with that (if it means that there will be another night and more to come).
Anyway, yeah I should no be trying to play those stupid games.
>>18177376
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mEqbWqyCwIY
>>18178102
Screen capped thx brah. I've been doing this but I couldn't explain it. 20