Worried About My Sex Drive/Erectile Function

why in the world does your doctor talk to your family if you're 30?

do you experience a lot of stress at work, do you have a fetish that makes it difficult to get aroused?

>>18177304
To make your dick work again you have to
>solve health problems
stop stress
stop alcohol
stop being fat
start doing some sport like swimming
>solve mental problems
stop thinking about your dick
stop fapping
stop porn
stop overthinking problems
stop stress

Also you are 30. So you cant be horny teen anymore. Solve your life first and dont worry about your dick.

Once you get morning erections you are ready for girl physically. Then you have to lose the stress and you are good to go.

Also change doctor.

extenze
cialis
viagra
penis enlargement pump

not all at once of you'll explode

Quit porn.

Thats literally it.

>>18177463

>>18177406

The doctor thing is complicated because he was engaged to my mom and is still in love with her - she's super controlling and likes to pry into my life, so he can get an in with her if he tells her any secrets.

But the pros of the doctor are that he sees me whenever the fuck I want without an appointment, completely for free, knows all of my medical history (sans this), and will write me a note or prescription when I need it instead of the shitty runaround of sitting in a doctor's office for hours.

Yeah, work is extremely stressful for me, so much so that I throw up most Monday mornings from anxiety.

As far as fetishes, I do like western animation, dolls/figurines, (so I guess I'm attracted to the "perfect" female figure) and BDSM, but they're nothing I ever have worked into the bedroom. In fact, the one time I tried BDSM, it was awkward as fuck and I didn't like it.

>>18177463
>>18177468

Can you fuckers even read??? FFS:

>but I've been sober and on nofap for three weeks and can still barely get a semi

OP, if there's nothing wrong with you health-wise, the problem is purelly mental. A doctor would probably prescribe you viagra or a similar just as a mean to make you win your confidence back. I had really mild ED for a while (anxiety med + losing my confidence due to it), and what helped me was moving from a situation I felt confidence in my boner (my gf jerking me off), and finishing with penetration, which gave me the most anxiety

Once you make it work a few times, you start using those as references in the future and win your confidence back

>>18177435

So I just quit my job, which means the stress is gone for a while (I have plenty of money to fall back on for a while), I've been sober for three weeks, I'm down 10 lbs on a diet to 180, I start the gym with a trainer tomorrow morning.

I haven't fapped or looked at porn in two weeks, but no morning erections or anything, which is super concerning.

>>18177500
ok I hope you will find a more enjoyable job, I have a shitty and low paying job but at least I don't feel terrible at the thought of coming up to work in the morning.
You seem to be on the right path, good luck and stay strong

>>18177493
You've been hardcore fapping for years, from what ive researched it can take months on order to rewire your brain to be attracted to normak women again. Try and be patient this shit takes time.