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For dudes here who have problems with taking too long to cum...
How do you typically get partners to be less self-conscious about it? Been a problem for the entire history of my sex life, especially with women who take great pride in their oral sex skills. Most women have just always taken it as a given that a guy is going to cum and they are always really taken aback that I haven't cum and it's make them start doubting themselves. I tell them that it's just me and that it's no big deal ("I'm enjoying myself. It just takes a little time and patience with me") but it really gets things started off on the wrong foot, I'm afraid.
Would like to put their minds at ease, but there's only so much words can do when a girl has been sucking your dick for 15-20 minutes already and she isn't getting results.
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>>18177080
15-20 minutes is a lot dude
Are you addicted to porn/jerk off a lot?
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>>18177080
Same issue here, really there's not much you can do but reassure them but they will feel bad no matter what
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Can't you dick their pussy for 14-19 minutes and just finish in their mouths?
It's a really shitty thing for a girl to get upset for, most women would love to have a guy who doesn't cum after two strokes (I know cause I take a bit more to cum too)
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>>18177129
Not really. I mean, not now anyway. I jerk off regularly (3-4 times a week) and only watch porn on occasion, but I'm 30. As a teenager and a younger man, porn was definitely central to my sexual development and sex life as a whole.
It's more of a mental block, imo. I was a late bloomer (didn't have sex till I was 23). I had extreme performance anxiety about the whole idea of sex and disappointing a girl in the bedroom, and frankly speaking, I've spent so much more time getting myself off than being with a partner that I just associate orgasm with my masturbation habits including of some that post-ejaculatory shame of 'no gf' and wanting to delay orgasm out of some deep-seated fear of coming too quickly.
I think orgasm = bad in my head for a lot of reasons.
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>>18177170
That's what I typically do. My current gf loves to give head, while I've never been huge on receiving it.
Thankfully she's an absolute cumwhore so the "as long as I get to swallow your load" compromise works out fine.
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>>18177174
>>18177174
>I was a late bloomer (didn't have sex till I was 23). I had extreme performance anxiety about the whole idea of sex and disappointing a girl in the bedroom, and frankly speaking, I've spent so much more time getting myself off than being with a partner that I just associate orgasm with my masturbation habits including of some that post-ejaculatory shame of 'no gf' and wanting to delay orgasm out of some deep-seated fear of coming too quickly.
Wow. That's kinda fucked. Go easy on yourself, bro.
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Are you focusing on her while sexing it up? As in, are you letting your primal instincts run wild? I had this problem, but Nofap definitely helps and a good setting doesn't hurt either.
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>>18177174
rofl dis nigga
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>>18177080
Main thing you are doing wrong I can guess is masturbating. You've trained your dick to ejaculate to certain conditions that the female body doesn't replicate.
Only solution is to retrain your dick. You can try no fap but that only really works if you are masturbating like 4 times a week. Otherwise Id suggest getting a onahole and using that exclusively with no porn so that you get used to the feel of the female body over your hand.
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