How do I know how attractive I truly am?

You probably won't get validation from strangers on the internet. Go find a boy you like and ask him on a date - there you have your answer.

>>18176555
There's no certain way of finding out. You will ultimately have to figure it out for yourself. Some people will find you attractive, and some won't. Being a model doesn't necessarily mean that you're attractive, there's plenty of average-looking models out there that I don't find attractive at all. Also, some guys might lie to you about how hot you are in order to seduce you by giving you direct or indirect compliments. However, if they're already trying to seduce you, they obviously consider you to be attractive to some degree.

You might try posting photos online, but even that isn't guaranteed to give you an accurate answer, since a lot of people will feel bad calling you unattractive or average.

My advice would be to try not worrying about it. There's no purpose to it. Even if someone gave you a straight-up answer, you would probably still doubt them and would continue looking for more validation from other people, for more compliments, "likes", followers, etc. It's healthier to not focus on these things. People who obsess about being attractive are never satisfied with the answers they get even if they're being constantly bombarded with praise and compliments.

>>18176555
No one knows how attractive they are, or how unattractive they are, in both physical appearance as well as any other form of appearance. We-re humans, we seek out validation from others. You're not the only one.

Having that said, you'll find out with time. You have an advantage though, as you're a girl. You don't necessarily need to seek out attention from a boy (other than maybe smiling at one or saying hi). The way society is, the guys have to flirt up the girls. So no matter how attractive a guy is, he still has to have some level of charisma, while society doesn't demand anywhere near the same level from girls.

>>18176555
>How do I know how attractive I truly am
geeze
post a pic
I'm an expert on this matter.

>>18176555

men can tell how hot they are by rating the women they consistently get laid wtih.

women are the opposite, becuase a guy will gladly lower himself for free pussy, so a girl can only judge her worth by the kind of guy she can convince to be in a LTR with her.

>>18176555
You should really be able to tell. Guys would react to you. Involuntary reactions, maybe clumsiness, jaw drops, wide eyes, shaking, etc. would give it away. Voluntary reactions like cat calling and guys approaching you can be disingenuous. Regardless of what people think, guys do fall in love/into infatuation at first sight. You should know who has been into you from the way they act. If no one has crushed on you from afar, don't think you're hot.

>>18176718
Words of wisdom.

>>18176605
This
>>18176613
And this.

Trying to be attractive is a never ending black hole of insecurity.

The other week my girlfriend and I saw this girl at a dive bar, she was hanging out in a group of people that were obviously just there to hang and shoot some pool, no real big occasion or anything.

But you could tell she was done up to make a splash. Not overtly to the degree where you're like, "What the fuck are you doing wearing club shit at a dive bar? Try hard." but like juuuust on the line of being "modest" and "casual" while having her hair done and make up done meticulously as fuck, while trying to make it look like it wasn't.

Her clothes did similar. She obviously worked out a fucking shit ton and was wearing jeans and high heeled boots to show off her ass.

Clean and obviously well taken care of skin, with a not at all bad looking face

And to top it off she had probably the biggest bust either of us have ever seen in real life (She was like 5'6. Probably size 4. And sporting what look like natural size 30 or 32 G+ bust... And it still looked like the bra she had was too small for her... I was surprised she could stand straight.)

However. Her body language was obviously a gigantic front. She acted like she was top bitch, but from afar you could she she was just sliightly off and never fully comfortable. She'd always interject at weird points to try to stand out and be the center of attention, she'd have a tendency to close off and never relax, and a lot of what she did felt like it was almost forced. All of it reeked of some sort of deep seed insecurity.

You could tell with everything she did and all the effort she put in to appearance she still didn't feel comfortable with her body or confident.

Looks aren't everything, looks won't make you confident, if anything, it's a rabbit hole.

>>18176555
post pix

I'll be honest

>>18176613
I'm an 8/10, I'd say

7/10 face
7/10 body
10/10 height
8/10 personality

>>18176718
>a guy will gladly lower himself for free pussy
spoken like a true virgin

Porn agency. Submit a photo, (does not have to be nude). If you get offers to do non-nude paid work, then you are a stunner.

>>18176555
Just post pics of no makeup/ makeup

Duh

Also, looks are all subjective
So some people may find you hot
but others might not