The girl I've liked for about 6 years is now single again
I fuckedu p my chances freshman year by being a shy little fag, she liked me then too, but got turned off by it.
How do I message her and what do I say
I love dogs, she loves dogs, there is a dog event coming up, can I incorporate that
Sure, you could ask her to go to that even, but we don't know how bad could she be crying right now because of the breakup.
But also girls definitely recover quickly sometimes as well, so you could ask her AS A FRIEND and then move on to become his man.
Only problem is that you said you were a little shy so I'm thinking you didn't talked to her a lot, but if you did and were good friends then definitely ask her.
>>18175509
chances are you can't salvage this. if there is a way, the only way to do it is to not be a shy little fag, which means just manning up and reaching out and having a real conversation, not a pre recorded script from a Kiribatian boi pucci rating pictograph forum
>>18175529
Sorry forgot to add, another guy, who has ALSO been in love with her for about 6 years is talking to her.
They went on a date, so my window is small here.
>>18175534
Tru, I know me and her have more in common, but that guy has confidence. So I need to step my game up.
Priority is to not overthink right? I just can't figure out how to start the convo. That is what is messing with me.
>>18175539
>i just need to step my game up
you missed my point entirely anon, you could step your game up to the highest fucking level and still fail spectacularly. because girls dont just get with the first guy who displays 'game'. they get with guys they like, guys they develop feelings for. they aren't as easily manipulated as those ads next to pornos want you to believe.
what im telling you is that trying to get with one specific girl that just got out of a relationship has no real 'approach'. there is no formula, there is no scientific method. she either likes you or she doesn't. and considering your history, she probably doesn't.
>priority is to not overthink
>i just can't figure out how to start a convo
probably because you're over thinking
>>18175571
You're right.
I'm gonna just talk to her and whatever happens, happens. Thanks fren
>>18175578
pretty much all you can do. good luck regardless but just remember that if she isn't into it that doesn't mean you did something wrong.
>>18175587
thank you for that
>>18175509
how do u like the same person for 6 yrs wtf how lonely r u like im lonely person but that just takes the cake
>>18175610
I've dated girls since then fag, hell I feel in love once too. But this girl has never been single since then.
I'm single, she's single, I've alwqays had a thing for her. Why not try it?