I have no idea what I am doing /adv/.. My friend sent me a picture of a woman the other day. She looks pretty. I like her. She sent me her photo to and I was going to text her..
But what the fuck do I even say? I assuming she probably would want to go on a date too which is fucking terrifying to me. I have been on dates before but with women I go to know more slowly I guess.
With this, I am presuming she will want to date pronto. She went to my friend looking for dudes to date and he thought I would match well for her.
I am worried out of my brain. I have no idea what I am doing. Could I get ANY POINTERS in this type of dating? She and I both know what each other look like.
I need help pronto because I am super lost with this kind of stuff and now my brain is shifting into that weird worry zone.
Just go and have fun, don't overthink it. You're just trying to get to know them.
>>18175285
Step 1: Go out with them
Step 2: Treat this like you're meeting a complete and total strange dude or something for the first time, not like you're going on a date
Step 3: Ask them about themselves
Step 4: Have alcohol if available/legal(Not enough to get drunk, just enough so you're not a nervous wreck. You can even make this step 0 but i'd advise against it)
>>18175469
Is it weird to ask her out quickly? We exchanged a few texts and I want to ask her out. I don't really dig texting that much because the delays drive me nuts. I hate waiting for her response when having a conversation. Is it weird to ask her out so soon? I just want to get to know her.
>>18175558
>I just want to get to know her.
That's the ENTIRE point of meeting in person.
Text on a screen ain't going to tell shit all about who a person actually is. All it will ever net you is random facts with no context to place them in.
>>18175285
"Hi. Judy gave me your number and said she thinks we might hit it off? Want to meet for coffee and see if she's right? I'll be the one holding the red balloon."