Is it wrong to date a girl if you don't see yourself falling

You need to understand that true love is a house you build, not a feeling that comes and goes (that's infatuation).

If you come at it with the mindset of, "I am going to care for this person and be there for them physically and emotionally regardless of how I feel" then you are fulfilling the role every person should feel for their SO.

>>18174969
Can I save that quote, I'm going through the exact same thing as OP and that really opened my horizons

You can be happy with any girl as long as you don't love her desu.

>>18174930
The last two girls I fell in love with I didn't think were my type (romantically, we had loads in common otherwise). Just see what happens but don't string her along if you're not feeling it and she clearly is.

>>18174930
Love comes from shared experience, struggle, mutual companionship and time.

You dont just look at someone and say "yeah i love her." thats infatuation. Its very different.

The fact youre all wahh i dunno if i can love her, while at the same time acknowledging her value means you arent in pure blinded lust mode over her.

It doesnt guarantee anything but ill say its a great start for a very good love.

Thanks guys. Ive never really been in a relationship outside of gradeschool so the concept of love was kind of cloudy for me. I think it makes a lot more sense now. She's a sombra main tho apperently so idk

>>18174930
relationships never really end even after leaving. do your self the favor and make sure that your girlfriend wont lead into bs.