I have been single and without friends since i moved to another country, which its about four years by now. I was ok with this since i am sort of a sperg/introvert but i recently had a major rejection by a girl i liked a lot and now i find myself trying to get back in the game.
I opened a Tinder and Okc accounts with considerable succes (relatively speaking) and have been going out a bit more, met a girl in /soc/ that lives in my city and another one irl.
The issue here is that i am not used to this type of life. I find bothersome to continue conversations with that many girls at the same time and i am really only attracted to the one that rejected me and the other that i met irl, which although attracted to me, its a really complicated situation (she is in a relationship).
Its weird, i fell alone but at the same time i dont like being in the spotlight, and i only get attracted to girls when its difficult for me to actually get them
Why is it so hard to find motivation?
And why am i only attracted to girls that make it difficult for me?
>INB4 why is OP such a faggot
In 4 years you spoke to 2 people
I speak to more people on the way to the grocery store in 10 minutes than you did in 4 years
>>18174332
Yes
I am of course, referring to maintaining contact with them, i know its weird, i am a sperg by all means.
>>18174360
>>18174332
Also i dont have trouble with guys, i work with people, i am not shy or anything.
>>18174360
Ask them to do things that you want to do?
If they want to join, great. If not, well I hope you kept up meeting new people because they're all gonna flake on you until one doesn't
>>18174327
Being a sperg, by definition it will be difficult to connect. Maybe you relate with the girl who rejected you better, or maybe you are attracted to her BECAUSE she rejected you.
Either way, there are plenty of spergs in the sea, try harder and you can find a better match. OKC is shit-tier.
>>18174327
It's scary how similar to me you are. Except I'm on the 7th year