I have spent most of my life alone and homebound(6th grade dropout). Now I'm in college and to my surprise people think I'm attractive.
How do I use this to find love? I'm pretty socially awkward and have been struggling to converse with people. I don't seem to say the right things for most people to engage in a long conversation with me.
Honestly don't even know how people ask each out or do relationship stuff.
>>18172847
Everyone does it differently. Talk to people to improve your social skills, it may be awkward at times but if you can make a friend or two who will help you out with working on the awkwardness along the way, you'll do just fine. You'll probably do just fine even without the friends. Just have a little self-confidence.
>>18172955
I have 1 guy I'd consider a friend but he's more awkward than I am and we can both say whatever we want to each other. Conversations between us aren't like those with normies so I don't think I'm getting practice from it.
>>18173010
Bump
Read "The Game".
If you push past all the PUA BS, the real substance of the book is actually pretty educational. Because being a good PUA is really just playing the social game well.
>>18173776
PUA stuff is pretty off-putting but some of the quotes I looked up make the book seem more self-aware and worthwhile. Thanks for the recommendation.