So this qt girl(8/10) has been giving me this big smile whenever we pass each other coming or going to classes. This has been going on for a couple months. I finally sacked up and said hello to her today.
>Hey are you in one of my classes?
> She pauses for a second
>no I just see you coming and going from my class
>I introduce myself and she introduces herself
>we shake hands
>I tell her she's really cute and I would like to get to know her
> she smiles and tilts her heady to the side
>her beautiful dark hair falls down past her head
>I ask her for her number
>she says okay
> I search my pockets for a pen
> she says she has a pen
> I find a pen and tell her I have one
> I get her number
> Tell her I have to go to class
> I say nice meeting you
>she says nice meeting you anon
>she goes to her car and i go to class
>I'm walking on sunshine for a good 30 minutes
She's the second girl I've gotten a number from after asking about 10 girls out. The first girl didn't really workout, although she still gives me a big smile when I see her. I don't really know how to proceed as I haven't actually gone out on a date before (unless you count meeting up to have sex).
So, I'm going to text her my name later today. Now should I just ask her out or should I text her for a little while before I ask her out?
Please help me. I am confident once we are on a date she will like me, but I don't know how to go about setting up a date. If I should just ask her out to coffee or should I banter a bit and then ask her out.
pls help
What do you mean by a little while? You mean exchanging pleasantries first? Yes, do that. But if you mean a few days, no. Definitely ask her out during the first text conversation.
>>18169158
Thank you, I appreciate your help. I figure I'll text her my name so she has my #, then I'll ask her how her day was and ask her out to a coffee shop.
Sound good?
>>18169169
Yes, I'm a girl and if I'm interested in a guy this would be what I would hope for him to do.
>>18169179
Thank you for your reply, I'm rather desperate. I really want to be with this girl, she is unbelievably cute. From her name to how she looks. I only hope her personality matches up.
>>18169187
Best of luck, anon. Just make sure to hide your power level
>>18169191
Damn straight and thank you. I have some practice doing that in one of my classes, where three girls sit around me and constantly talk about things i have learned to be silent on.
btw, is a guy being able to do the splits attractive?
Do ladies find guys with long hair attractive?
Since replies have died down, I think I'll text her tomorrow with my name (so she has my number), ask her how her day has been and then ask her to this new coffee place. Sound good?
Btw this all happened today,, getting her # ,finding out her cute name, and talking to her for the first time, etc