I'm seeing this girl who is about 36 and I am 25. She used to date a lot of Arab dudes who sound like meatheads, some of them are in jail. She says she likes me , but thinks I have no life experience and laughs at a lot of stuff I do, calls me cute whenever I say something, and thinks I am possibly spoiled and lazy. I'm a hard worker just in a rut in my life between a shitty part time job and starting a psych degree which feels useless.
I don't like Arab douchebags, they're meat headed and dumb. The fact that that's who she used to see all the time bothers me. She is a sweet girl and I believe her when she says she likes me but should I let her past bother me or no?
>>18168345
>girl who is about 36
Look this is not a girl or young woman but a fucking adult who has made bad decisions and you should stay away if you're smart.
>>18168361
I don't really blame her for wanting to date them. I question it, especially since she's been raped like once a decade, but she's in a good spot in life and manages to stay positive so I don't think her life decisions are that terrible maybe a bit too trusting of a person
>>18168372
Stop it OP. Again this is not some late teen, early 20 something girl just starting out. This is a battle hardened woman nearing middle age and got a naive boy on the hook. Don't do it. She knows the ropes and you don't and she'll tie you in knots. You've been cautioned.
>>18168379
What should I be afraid of?
>>18168379
This senpai. Run, for me.
I dunno annon, if she's so condescending is she really sweet? She sounds like a mess desu, this whole arrangement does. If her standards are so low and her decisions so terrible what makes you think she properly judged you to be a good fit for her?