Okay, so I know I'm over thinking this but here it goes.
So I'm going to a new church and I want to go to their young adults group this week. On their facebook page they have the address/date/time this week's meeting is. Would it be weird to just show up? I don't know any of these people. Should I message the group over facebook and ask them if I can come? Or should I tell them that I'm coming? How would I say either of those things without looking either like a pussy or rude? They also have an email, would it be better to send them an email?
>>18167574
email 'em my nigga, its the least confrontational method. if they dont respond via email, try facebook.
>>18167574
Yeah dude, just send them an email. But don't think there's anything wrong with just showing up. If you feel weird about just showing up, go really early and wait for the first person who shows up. That person is probably the coordinator, just introduce yourself and let them know you're interested. It's a church, as if they're going to give you a cold shoulder.
>>18167574
If it's on Facebook can't you just click the Going button or post on the fb page? But honestly these church things are open to everyone, it's not weird to just show up. Just talk to people and try not to get too paranoid that you don't know anyone there. It's really not a big deal.
>>18167574
Email if you want to.
I've just shown up to a random bible study in the past and introduced myself up entering to who ever i saw first and they directed me to the person in charge. Not a huge issue.
Good luck at the new church!
>>18167580
>>18167588
Do I ask if I can come (and presumably pretend I didn't see the date/time/address on the facebook page) or do I politely tell them that I am coming? I'm thinking number one but I'd still like a second opinion. Advice on phrasing it would also be nice
>>18167590
They don't have an event thing so that isn't really an option its just a facebook page with a post saying when it is. Also its a church event obviously but its at someones house.