currently studying & meeting my gf of 4 months at weekends. have yet to actually cum through sex with her.
I watch quite a lot of porn but never thought it would be an issue.
what should I do
>>18166560
are you still masturbating?
>>18166562
yeah, I'm cutting down though, from once a day to maybe three times a week, holding off for at least a couple of days before I see her
>>18166569
maybe kjust stop. even if you hold off 3 times, yourb ody is still adjusting to having sex.
so what you're doing is
>not masturbating for 3 days
>trying to fuck her but no cumming
>then masturbating after the fact
your body is still thinking it has to wait til masturbation. instead, just dont masturbate. if you fail at sex, dont try cumming again until the day you fuck agtain. eventually your cock will get the pictuer
I have a difficult time cumming. It really just takes hitting a good stride for however long though. To be completely honest it could have something to do with finding your GF less attractive than porn stars.
>>18166574
that's fair desu but going completely cold turkey is gonna be hard
any advice to prevent giving in to temptation?
>>18166576
unfortunately there is probably an element of that in there if i'm completely honest
she is attractive but she doesn't have the kind of ultra-sexual body that's typical of pornstars
probably just gotta cut it off right?
>>18166583
any time you want to fap, just fuck your girlfriend
>>18166593
solid logic but not fully an option, she lives too far away
>>18166599
then anytime you want to fap, text her about how you cant wait to see her again.
cold showers, stay off of 4chan.
>>18166602
thanks