what to do???

>>18162390
vape bro.

Tough situation because you absolutely should stop smoking pot, but at the same time she is wrong to try and force you to

Start complaining about the shit that she does. Tell her that if she doesn't stop leaving her hair clips and shit everywhere in the apartment you will leave. Tell her the next time you see one of her goddamn yogurt cups tipped over on the ground with the spoon inside you will leave. Tell her to stop asking to be picked up from work and take the bus like everybody else or you will leave.

Then leave anyways.

Or not. Whatever.

Smoke a bowl bro

>>18162390
>I do love her but feel this is just a way to seize total control over every aspect of my life.
If cigarettes, booze, junk food, and marijuana is "Every aspect of your life" to you, then your partner probably has a very valid point.

"If you loved me you would quit" is a really shitty way of trying to convince you, but it still sounds to me as though she has your best interests at heart and she's done nothing but improve your life so far. Self-medicating your "touch of ADD" with pot is a dumb excuse; seek proper treatment or just live with it (as many perfectly normal people do).

>>18162417
>OP can't casually smoke from time to time to help himself
Why not?

>>18162420
I suppose I was unclear in my first post; I personally don't have a problem with marijuana use, recreational or otherwise. But if OP's partner is asking him seriously to drop the habit, it's a really simple matter of whether the weed or the broad is more important to him. I think the bit about the "touch of ADD" is a crappy justification for what is most likely just (harmless) habitual smoking. That's what spurred my comment.

>>18162390
Well that's not fair. Sounds like you're trying in your part, also her telling you that you'd do it if you loved her is fucked.
Probably better off without her op, unless she can be convinced she isn't being fair or helpful. Just controlling.