Hello,
I have a problem that I don't understand.
I am 24 yo, I workout 3 Times a week, in college, everything seems fine.
I am with this great girl which happen to be the first one I truly love (I had 5 gf before but never loved any of them).
Everything is going great but since like 4 month I experience the worse loss of libido of my life.
I have almost no interest in having sex or watching porn and when I do it feels... Empty. Even though I find my gf really beautiful and she has a great body.
I like to go down and pleasure her but when it comes to me I often can't even get excited and often lose my erection.
The only thing that is different is that I Want to build a future with her and provide for a family, and that idea never leaves me alone.
What do you think about that ?
Thank you and sorry for the mistakes, english is not my main language.
Forgot to say that there are times when when can have like 2/3 times great sex a day, but usually after a party or when whe smoke pot together.
I have no idea but bumping because my boyfriend is the same.
He is never horny or turned on around me. It's messing with my head and I'm actually losing sleep over it. He swears it's not me or my body but I've really had enough of his dick being soft all the time.
Now I find myself going out on my own just to get some attention to see if I am still attractive. This is fucking with me.
Any young guy complaininf of lack of libido should first stop masturbating. Once you haven't masturbated in a couple weeks, I dare you to come back and tell us that your libido is still low
>>18162031
What if they can't stop porn/masturbating?
Even when my libido was high i masturbated like 2/3 Times per month. I always prefered the real thing
>>18162018
Lose weight
Are you stressed? Do you feel fatigued? Do you have a healthy diet? Do you consume a lot of alcohol? Are you overweight?
If you answered yes to any of the above, then fix it and see if it helps. If not, consult a doctor about it. Loss of libido in young men can be a sign of decreased testosterone, depression, or a number of other factors.
Stressed yes, fatigued yes, healthy diet pretty much but I allow myself thing sur like burgers or pizza 2/3 Times a month. I used to drink a lot and I have a builtfat body type (I do a lot of strength training).
My best guess would be stress but I have been a stressed person my whole life and never had that kind of problems before...
>>18162018
>Boyfriend probably has severe performance anxiety
>You get mad at him and seek attention from other guys
I can't wait for WW3