has anyone ever had celebrity crushes/obsessions?
how do you get over the person(s) who don't know of your existence and may or may not piss on you if you were on fire?
>>18161804
Felt that a few times, it always faded after a day or two. Just focus on other shit, let them become background noise like everyone else again.
>>18161804
For about 5 or 6 years (maybe more, I lost count), I was obsessed with Aly Michalka. Not like "gonna go stalk her" obsessed, but had the bizarre idea in my mind that one day I'd meet her and be totally charming and we'd go out or something. I don't know. I probably would have shit my pants if I ever saw her.
Anyways, really, it faded over time, but I found that keeping myself from being exposed to stuff she was in was the best idea. I didn't save new pictures, stayed out of threads that involved her, that kinda thing. Eventually she dyed her hair brown, lost a lot of weight, and I really completely lost interest.
I still have celebrity crushes, but I guess I've always had crushes on chicks that I can just kind of fantasize about, whether that's a celebrity or head cheerleader or some bartender or something... I just don't obsess anymore.
>>18161804
I currently have a crush on Ivanka Trump
She's so pretty and her body is bangin'
what makes someone predisposed to celebrity obsessions?
>>18162946
This definitely isn't scientific, but as the Aly Michalka guy, I think I just have a great love of fairytales and storytelling over reality. It's easy to latch on to this beautiful, rich, talented person and imagine wonderful times together, untainted by all of the bullshit that happens in a "real" relationship.
Facing the fact that even relationships with the most attractive and wonderful girls in my life are going to be tainted by stupid arguments, petty jealousy, drugs, alcohol, anxiety, money issues, disliking each others friends, pregnancy scares, shitty kids, and more, is harder than escaping into my fantasy sometimes.
It's just like why people have 2D waifus, I suppose. You get to filter out all of the bullshit when you're all up there in your daydream about someone flawless.
I crushed a bit when I was younger on a French actress. Then I started spending less time on my computer, spent more time with friends, hobbies and eventually got a job. Cured me like nothing else.
Then I met said French actress in person, she turned out to be real cool and the crush was back for a little while like a motherfucker.
>>18161804
I'd like to ask a similar question to the anons who've invested their obessession into 2d anime characters.
>>18163223
Just stop spending so much time on your computer/phone.