hi,
>be me, 28 yo virgin
>fat and heavily autistic throughout my teenage and most of my 20s
>recently decided to get my shit together
>improve look
>It's super effective!
The problem is: I can't have sex
I think I have 2 problems:
1. it's difficult to get hard, I feel I jerked off too much to porn throughout my autistic years
2. I can't completely pull my foreskin. Even when I can miraculously get hard, it hurts when I try to put my dick in and it goes limp very fast
It's pretty cool to eat a girl out, feel her getting wet and all, but it always makes them insecure about themselves when they can't return the favor and get me hard or have normal sex with me.
Last friday, I turned down a qt who was hitting on me because i didn't want to waste her time or disappoint her with my pathetic sex life.
This is not the first time and it always destroys me because I can't tell them the real reason...
Anyone can relate to my experience?
What should I do? Who should I see?
Please help
picture unrelated because I can't post a picture of my dick here
Yes, fucking stop masturbating. You can't get hard with her soft touch because you likely masturbate way rougher. So cool it with that. Also get circumcised if you don't want to worry about foreskin. Also it is cleaner since then you don't get smegma
>>18161039
1. Stop masturbating.
2. More foreplay, much more foreplay.
3. Viagra.
4. Kegels.
>>18161079
>>18161099
i also can't get hard because of anxiety
Anyone has experience dealing with that?
Does it just go away with time?
>>18161105
Yes, it will go away. You are worried about not getting hard so it makes it more difficult to get hard, so you worry more and on and on and on
Eventually you will not be so worried and it will just happen.
But seriously stop masturbating first.
>>18161123
How often do normal people masturbate?
What are the cons of getting circumcised? is it the only solution to my foreskin problem?
>>18161132
Hey op, I've got the same problem as you. I think I masturbated too much, plus as a teen I used it as a crutch to get through depression, and lo and behold: I couldn't get it up when I needed it. Honestly, didn't even feel aroused when the bitch laid back and spread em.
I'm certain it was mostly from nerves, partially from not enough foreplay and the wrong kind of foreplay, and I didn't know her that well. And I wasn't super attracted to her. And we were both very awkward.
Anyway. What I'm trying is to masturbate way less. It's difficult because it's such a habit, but I feel like it's my only shot at this point. It's just such a balancing act though because it's not like I have sex on a silver platter, so I don't want to never ever jerk off and be horny 24/7. But on the other hand I don't want to jerk off too much and not be able to get turned on if the moment comes up.
Also talk to a fucking doctors about your tight foreskin, I wouldn't recognize taking adult circumcision lightly unless very necessary.
I have a similar problem: my dick gets hard and stays hard but i can't cum.
Last time i had sex i lasted 2 hours before having to stop.due to my balls hurting too much, and my back also. If i masturbate at home alone i can cum pretty fast if i don't edge.
I tried everything: blowjob, handjob, footjob, titfuck, grinding. Nothing, not a single drop of cum. I'm gonna try not masturbating for a month and see what happens