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Do I Friendzone my Boyfriend 2017-03-25 01:32:50 Post No. 18158633
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hi /adv/
I've been dating this guy for 2 1/2 months. We've been trying to have sex but he just can't get hard so I think he's completely given up. He doesn't even let me suck his dick anymore. Even a few days ago, I tried to make out with him but he stopped me. So we have no sexual aspect of our relationship other than plain ol' kissing.
He doesn't pay for my meals anymore, which isn't a super huge deal but it just is another way how I don't really feel like much of his girlfriend. I pay for his meals 1/2 of the time, and I also buy him suprise gifts and do romantic gestures for him. It feels like a one sided relationship and it feels like there is no more romance between us anymore. I think he'd rather us be friends anyway by the signs he's giving me. The thing thay really upset me the most is I have an interview in a couple hours. It's pouring outside and is also around 40 degrees. I have to take the bus there because my sister had to take my car out of town yesterday. I asked him if it was possible if he could give me a ride to my interview but he straight up ignored me. My friends are telling me that he's an asshole. I know it isn't his responsibility to give me rides, but he's doing nothing else right now?
I'm thinking about talking to him about my thoughts tonight. Should I bring up just being friends or keep trying at a relationship?
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>>18158633
You should probably ask him if he's stressed out, how he's doing, how's his family; figuring out the source of his more than obvious stress.
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>>18158633
It sounds like he's not that into you. Try talking to him about it, but I think you'd be better off dumping him.
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>>18158655
This. If this was a healthy relationship, he would put some effort in. And it sounds like you two aren't sexually compatible or he's gay.
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sounds like hes been eating too much soy and factory made food
that shit is full of estrogen
i used to have those problems before i started eating natural and exercising
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>>18158654
Like anon said, it's a good idea to know if he has a lot of problems he's not saying about. But judging from how he's acting, giving a few hints that you could drop him out wouldn't be a bad idea too. Any guys that has a bit of respect wouldn't treat their women like how he's treating you.
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Any decent friend would give you a ride in that situation, it sounds like he's too pussy to break up so he's just being an asshole until you break up with him
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>>18158633
1) we males are super fragile beings.
We arent allowed to fail, talk about our problems, seeking help in others and failing getting erection while being with girl can be very soul crushing experience.
2) you can now try to choose help him or simply dump him. His behavior can mean a lot of things from:
>being insecure
to
>being asshole
3) if you choose to help him, it can be painful long run which can get you two really close or just waste a lot of your time.
His inability to get erect can be from:
>stress
>porn addiction
>medication
>being gay in denial
I personally bet it on stress. Make him to sit in your lap, close his eyes and think of nothing and whisper something sweet in his ear. That could help with being nervous.
Whatever you choose to do i wish you good luck!
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