Finally got laid, could not get it hard

Viagra.

Stop masterbating so much. Also since it's your first time that was also killing your confidece eventually you'll get better. But all that beating doesn't help.

>>18158397
Thanks for the kind words, I think you are right. I mean if I just started jerking it there, I would probably have made myself hard in no time, but without the iron tight grip it just seemed to shrink back. Will limit it and see.

Stop watching all porn for a month minimum. If you're still experiencing ED try using a cock ring. If anything it'll help with performance anxiety since it'll keep you rock hard even with a condom.

>>18158380
Get used to it. A handjob from a woman won't feel as good as doing it yourself. When you'll get used to the feeling of her doing stuff to you you'll relax and enjoy it more

Same things happened when I was first having sex (i was 17 and very angsty).It was a complete fail, she kept yanking at it for what seemed like an eternity, but to no awail. I was very dissapointed in myself, but the girl woke me up around 3 hours later (it was like 4 am) and we did it. Things were smooth from there.Its normal and masturbating doesnt really affect it(it only affects how long until you orgasm, for me atleast)