People always women are the one that bring up marriage and kids conversation but honestly that shit is scary. I'm just 22 and my parents want grandkids. No offense but why would I mess up my life with a kid. I'm not saying I don't ever want them I just perfer to have them when I'm financially stable. Not sure how to tell my bf that we should slow down by a lot. He seemed happy about being a dad. And I feel really guilty that I don't.
Having kids when you're """financially stable""" is a meme
>>18155042
you are a meme
I have money but not enough for a house. I'm talking about my own not my bf. I know it should be both of us saving but eh I already have a few thousand . I know having kids can be expensive. And I have to plan for the future.
What is the big hurry? You don't need to have kids yet if you're not ready for them
My bf wants kids