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Help : Abusive ex put video of me online

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so i finally broke away from quite an abusive relationship, he was controlling and mean but also so loving and caring at times..
felt like he really did love me he was just insecure
i even got his name tattooed i know... TWAT
it didnt stop his paranoia or nastiness

well one day i didnt text him after work as im just less interested and tired from all the tights over everything
he kicked off that i was a slut etc because i didnt text the 2nd time in the day
he said it was over blablabla same old
thinking id grovel and beg.... nope
i was like ok fine
im sick of this anyway enough is enough

i sent a polite break up paragragh
no reply

next day

he decided i would not get away with this

there is the list of threats that came nexr
1.telling me to watch myself
2. to come to my work and "expose" me
3.Non stop phone calls on no caller ID
4. pretending he'd hacked my email by sending me an email from what looked like myself.. it was an email address that looked like mine but few letters missing
5.send me pictures of myself saying how proud my dad will be when he sees me this way
6.signing me up to loads of scam and spam sites so im called text and emailed constant junk
7. threatening to come to my house
8. telling my friends id been bitching about them
9. attempting to hack all my social media all weekend
10. getting digital assassins involved? to hack and abuse me?


i got police involved as i was scared and national centre for domestic violence
i hadnt eaten in 5days and was feeling weak

they just told me to change my number and email


but why im really here is because things have got worse and i need advice.

he has put a video of me on a website for slating ex's
saying "cheating slut"
obviously i didnt cheat

the video is embarrassing
im stripping..
it has 15,000 views!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i had to tell my facebook friends and family to please not watch a video of me.

i've been contemplating suicide today as i feel completely broken

what do i do?
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Not take slutty vids of yourself.
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>Hey /adv/, I'm a victim please side with me kthx
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>>18152699
Contact the site to remove it
Get the police properly involved
If that doesnt work

If you know any bad people, just get them to beat the piece of shit up
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>>18152699
Sorry you had to experience that...
*HUGE HUG*

But don't give this guy the satisfaction of breaking you. Not even a little bit. You WILL recover from this.. only a matter of time.

Be patient.. take it one day at a time. Delete your email account even and create a new one. Or keep it as evidence of him intimidating you. It can put him in serious problems if he doesn't stop.
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>>18152753
>*HUGE HUG*

behold the elusive Nice Guy in his natural habitat
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>>18152753
>*HUGE HUG*
Maybe now she'll suck you off
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Link please
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>>18152706
Way to victim blame
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>>18152699
Show video.
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Lawyer up if you can afford it. Threaten legal action if you can't. Let everyone who knows him know that he did this once the video is down.
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>>18152699
keep going with the police, don't kill yourself, obviously, and depending on where you live, what he did may be illegal (some of it is certainly illegal, but I'm talking about the revenge porn part, specifically).

That shit is already online, though, so you might just have to live with that, which sucks. Like, every girl I've ever dated has let me take naked pictures and videos of them, that's nothing to be embarrassed about. Literally all of your friends and family have nudes of themselves on some dude's phone or computer (or Polaroids, depending on how old they are).
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Police. They probably won't do anything, but you need to document it all. Buy a gun and learn to use it. It's very likely he'll try to kill you. Contact the site and politely ask them to take the video down. If they don't go to a lawyer.
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>>18152699
Hey op. I work on cases similar to this. I can get your video removed and scrubbed from the internet for good.

I'll send out DMCA takedowns lioe fucking candy on Halloween and threaten to sue everyone who viewed said videos on your behalf.

What is the link to the video?
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>>18152896
lul
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>>18152706

Duh. She knows that now.
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>>18152699
Lol, serves you right, fucking slut.
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>>18152753
>*HUGE HUG*
>>>/reddit/
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>>18152915
Kek. Lost my shit to this. A true 4chan post.
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>>18152699
You went in too deep, miss. You cant beat crazy even if police is involved, though it's good that you did that.

Embrace the fact that there's a video of you out there. It's normal and it was meant to be private. Look at Emma Watson and all of the other celebs who got their nudes leaked. You must be a beautiful woman, but you were naive. You thought you can love an absolute madman and be ok. Im glad youre out but you need to be careful. You might get hurt, if this escalates!

You should contact the officials again if anything continues and make it seem your life is in danger. Make a facebook post about it too so the fb friends who have watched your video(all of them) will take your side on this. Just give the facts, do NOT make it a sob story. Good luck, I hope everything turns okay and this must be a wake up call for you. Im not victim blaming you, miss. Just fucking think and every person reading this, male or female, dont get caught up with emotions only and go too deep too soon before you know what youre dealing with. Guys, dont stick your d in crazy. Women, dont let the crazy stick their d into you.
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>>18152760
>>18152761
>>18152917
it's illegal to try and comfort people on /adv/, sorry, I forgot.
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>>18152999
trips of truths though, faggot
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>>18152999
Why would you expect anything other than flippant joke posts and mocking? It's like taking your sick pet to /an/ instead of a vet. You have to be a retard or a masochist to think anyone on a Tuvalu Arts and Crafts Association is qualified to aid you.
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>>18152999
You can comfort people on /adv/ without sounding like a 16-year-old tumblrite. If you've been on 4chan longer than 24 hours you'd know that nobody uses *does action* in any sense other than ironically. So either you're trying to comfort op ironically, or you're fresh off the boat from Reddit.
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>>18153074
No, I've been here since 2007. Not everybody agrees with you.
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>>18153079
It's not a matter of agreeing with them. it's practically a fact that people who *does something* are theatrical faggots who can't get their point across otherwise.
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from what I know revenge porn is illegal, check your state laws and prosecute, if he did this over a polite break up by you then he deserves every bit of it, lawyer up and let the law deal with him, you shouldn't have to yourself.
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>>18153079
I've been here since 2004 and even in the most ancient, stale copypasta like TEH PENGUIN OF DOOM *holds up spork*, it was always used to ridicule people.
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>>18152699
Where the fuck is the link OP?

15k people already watched it. Whats another 10 going to do?
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If you went to the police, ask them for a female officer to document all the pages before they get taken down. Afterward the township police department will issue a cease and desist of the content and it will be removed promptly.

I went through this with an ex. He went to jail for identity theft but primarily because he made a fake facebook of her with a link to a revenge porn website he made in plain site. He friend requested all of her friends and family.
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>>18153088
*musses up your hair*
*wonders why you're getting so invested in this argument*
*pokes your belly*
*grins at you*
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