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help pls 2017-03-23 08:30:37 Post No. 18152046
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help pls Anonymous 2017-03-23 08:30:37 Post No. 18152046 [Report]

What level of uncertainty is normal when thinking about getting married or committing to someone fully?

I'm with a girl who could definitely be the one, but I'm a lot younger than I thought I would be having legitimate thoughts about this. (I'm 23, never thought I'd get married until at least like 28). Even though we wouldn't get engaged for at least another year or 2, I get nervous thinking about it. I know it's normal to have concerns over committing to a single person, never being able to date around, etc. but how much of it is just the normal fears of commitment, and how much of it is a legitimate concern of being too young to get into something like that?

Anonymous 2017-03-23 08:32:31 Post No.18152048
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Anonymous 2017-03-23 08:32:31 Post No.18152048 [Report]

>>18152046
>we wouldn't get engaged for at least another year or 2
Why are you worrying about this now then?

Anonymous 2017-03-23 09:16:26 Post No.18152091
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Anonymous 2017-03-23 09:16:26 Post No.18152091 [Report]

>>18152048
It's always been something I've thought about really

Anonymous 2017-03-23 09:45:06 Post No.18152130
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Anonymous 2017-03-23 09:45:06 Post No.18152130 [Report]

>>18152046
I don't think you can know for sure.
Take it with a grain of salt, cause I've got limited experience, but from what I've seen it seems to be a bet.

Like, I know a couple who got married now 25 years ago and they seemed fine, then over time they changed a bit and the whole thing became quite stressful. I doubt they love each other like in the old days.

So yeah, kind hard to judge, especially for us who do not know any of you two.
Maybe talk about this with you parents.

Also, cause 4chan, OP is a faggot.

Anonymous 2017-03-23 09:49:45 Post No.18152139
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Anonymous 2017-03-23 09:49:45 Post No.18152139 [Report]

Might not be the advice you're looking for but a friend of mine has told me he had absolutely no concerns in the leadup to his marriage, he knew 100% it was what he wanted.

Anonymous 2017-03-23 09:55:14 Post No.18152146
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Anonymous 2017-03-23 09:55:14 Post No.18152146 [Report]

>>18152046
did you have any... traumatic experiences while growing up? For example, did you parents divorced, or your uncle cheated idfk

Points is, if you are an overthinker (you are) and know that something might go wrong down the road, uncertainty is something you'll have to deal with, with this so or with another.

Take it slow, and see where you'll be at in two years time

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