Not invited

>>18151909
Don't worry about it? If they didn't invite you, well too bad, but there's nothing to gain in holding it against them, or worrying yourself about it. Just go on, and let things flow themselves. If they wanna be your friends, they'll come around. If they don't, they'll distance themselves.

>>18151909
Throw your own party with the other friend they didn't invite.

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wear deodorant nigga

>>18151909
join the navy

>>18151986
It's called "speedstick"...

...it's not expensive.

>>18151909
You made this thread again? You're really ate up over this lol

Let me ask you this question: what do you want to do about it?

>>18152051
I want to fuck the emo chick.

>>18152051
I want to ask about it when i was calmer.

My instinct is to let them know I'm quitting, but just saying i need to concentrate on school or something, and find a new group.

But i have a tendency to self sabotage and I'm not sure if leaving or staying is the sabotage here.

>>18151909
Are you ever the one who reaches out to others?

If you never say "Anyone want to go see the new movie this weekend?" or the like, they will get the idea that YOU don't like THEM. And they will respect your privacy by not bothering you with thir invitations.

>>18152418
I'm not, and i know it's an issue, but i also don't think that's what's going on here.

There was legitimate awkwardness and visible flustered faces when someone nonchalantly started talking about the party. It was obvious i was being purposefully excluded and not in a well meaning way. It hurt.

I don't know if the correct move is to cut my losses and try to make new friends elsewhere who don't make me feel bad (my instinct), or if that's like a little kid stomping off when something doesn't go his way.

Also i have good hygiene and usually shower right before going to play games.

>>18152418
Oh and i remember one (the guy in the group I'm closest to) mentioning doing something as a group outside of the game once in a text message to me and i said I'd be down, so i really don't think that's it.

>>18151909
some of the people in your gaming group don't like all of the people in your gaming group. it depends on who is throwing the party. I wouldn't be personally offended. I HATE one of the guys I game with. He's invited to all of the games, but I've never invited him to a party, because I just dont know him or have any reason to interact with him outside of that space.

>>18152590
So someone hates me and the other guy? Enough to exclude us? That's not really making me want to stay

>>18152039
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>>18152597
I'm giving you one possible example based on my experience. It's perfectly reasonable that in a large group of friends that some people in the group like other members less.

>>18154200
Yeah....but I don't want to be one of the unliked members and if I am, I'd rather move on to a group that includes me than stay with one that doesn't. Or do I stay and try to be more likeable since I've already invested so much time? Or do I consider it a sunk cost?

I think I'm going to move on. These people hurt me.

I told them I wouldn't be coming anymore and that I needed to concentrate on school and starting a new career instead and said it was nice meeting everyone.

Thanks to everyone for their help. I'll look into other places I can hang out.

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>gaming group

>>18154913
Why is that funny?

>>18154234
You're acting pretty entitled here. You probly do something that irritates the fuck out of the person who was hosting, or the group as a whole. Which might not be enough to stop gaming with you, but doesn't mean they OWE it to you to invite you to everything they do. This is your gaming group after all, not best friends forever