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Girlfriend and I broke up (i dumped her), 2 days later she sucked

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Girlfriend and I broke up (i dumped her), 2 days later she sucked a past hookups dick. The same day we broke up she was talking to another guy from her College and sending him nudes and on live camera nude. I was a dick to her when we broke up but ended up begging her back. We got back together 4 hours later after she sucked this guy. Didn't tell me until I found out through a friend and she confessed everything she did and showed me her messages.

I feel hurt and betrayed but is this okay because we weren't together? We got back together 4 hours later. She has so much remorse and guilt - she's been crying for 3 days straight and had a breakdown today about it. I want to forgive her because I love her but I can't get the images out of my head. She's been doing so much for after this like taking me out, buying me shit and wrote me a massive letter and brought me flowers (lol). Our relationship was good and she always told me how much she loved me but I think she is emotionally unstable and doesn't know how to say no when in the moment of things. She told she went to this guys house to 'talk' and that happened.

Then she dumped me a couple days later emotionally, tried to go on a date with a guy and failed and then came back to me because I begged her back basically because I was unaware of what happened.

Is there a chance things will work out? I love her but I can't see her the same. Is this considered cheating because we weren't together or am I just trying to rationalize being a cuck? Like I said, I love her and our memories and I don't want to give that up. It was a good relationship, we had our bad moments I just really believe she doesn't know how to say no and fucked up hard. If you want more info on what happened, just ask. I need someone to discuss this with.
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You're an idiot. You say you love here, but you don't know what love is, and neither does she, if this is how you treat each other.

Get over yourselves. Either forgive and forget, or split and don't look back. This is reality TV grade drama bullshit.
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>>18151609
How do I forgive and forget this?


Well I mean yeah dude, you can probably tell I'm young and not very experienced.
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>>18151612
Its hard to forgive and forget but you sound like you love so much that you can do it. Basically forgive her for what she did the short time you were apart. (It seems like she is genuinely sorry). Then every time that part of the past comes back try to suppress it and forget about it. It becomes easier with time.
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You're a bitch and she's a whore, perfect couple. You dumped her and she took the opportunity to hop on the cock carrousel, and you acted like a cuck begin for her to come back to you after knowing she slutted around (and she wasn't wrong to do so, you dumped her dipshit)

Man the fuck up and send this woman on her way, apparently she's the one wearing pants and with a bulge from having balls bigger than yours.
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>>18151650
Are you speaking from personal experience man? I love her so much but I don't want to get hurt again. Again, I believe her when she says she won't repeat it or anything like that ( even though we broke up for 2 days ) but what I feel is that she is very easy and very easy to be impressionable. She basically has trouble saying no when she has a lot of stress and is overwhelmed. She is showing serious fucking remorse and had some kind of like emotional breakdown where she was shaking and crying and breathing like a retard today and that's after she was crying everyday in front of me and randomly for 3 days apologizing. She would have fucked both of those guys but she couldn't get the chance to go all the way.

Is what she did excusable at all? I don't think it is even though we were broken up but what do you think? When we got back together, she lied about it then trickle truthed me until I found out. It's hard getting the thought of her sucking another mans dick out of my head and then her kissing me 4 hours later getting back with me.
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>>18151673
I never knew what she did until a couple weeks later when I found out
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>>18151590
leave her you fucking retard
are you going to keep posting the same shit every day until someone tells you the wrong thing to do?
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>>18151689
It's hard dude and wut
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>>18151679
Tbqh its hard to say if what she did is right. It hurts, Im sure, that she sucked another guy and could/would have done worse, especially since it was so soon. It also seems like a red flag that she wasn't going to tell you. Maybe just try to hang on for a month and see how things work out?

Also, I am speaking from personal experience but in my experience we broke up years later for different reasons.

Btw don't get too bother by the mean fags here.
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>>18151609
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Anon is right
If she cared she wouldn't have done any of this
Just looks like she is dependent on other people and since she can't find someone else she can depend on she runs back to a confirmed source
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Fucking leave her, OP. If you are ACTUALLY in love with someone, you don't generally just go from feeling like shit that you're not together, to doing sexual shit with someone else in such a short period of time. Doubly so because most people fucking understand that sometimes hard shit happens, and you break up temporarily.
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>>18151810
The worst part is she knew damn well we were going to get back together too. She still told me she loved me and everything. I feel like she abused this breakuo and convinced herself it would be okay to fuck around.

We agreed on talking that night then I offered to meet her after what she got done blowing the guy. Again, I didn't know what she did at the time. She told me she was at her teachers house.
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>>18151839
OP I am telling you right now, that the more details you give, the more you confirm that she's fucking terrible. She may treat you nice right now since she fucked up, but this WILL end, and she will do more fucked up shit. The reason she's being so nice is because she (Like every woman) becomes addicted to stability with a guy, even if the situation isn't great. She is also likely testing you to see what she can get away with, even if she doesn't recognize she's doing it.
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>>18151839
Now I say to break up with her. Along the lines of what this anon said >>18151845. That sucks dude, sorry.
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>>18151852
But OP please don't start to hate women because of this, I am a women. It does suck and it'll hurt but I think its better for you not to treated that way.
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Well you broke up with her in a cunt way and she replaced you to mask the pain. It's common. Either move on and put it down to her coping mechanics with the shock of heart break or dwell and break up again so she can replace you.
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>>18151590
>We got back together 4 hours after she sucked this guy off
You literally kissed a mouth (assuming you got back together in person) that very very recently had another guys cock and cum in it. I'd dump her again for this reason alone.
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Holy shit wow I though this was bait but god damn you need to either get over it or shut the hell up
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>>18151590
You guys are both retarded. Shes a whore and stupid. You're immature and stupid.

Both of your stupidity basically cancelled each other out and its hard to say if what she did was acceptable. What you did was 200% unacceptable being a dick to her and then begging her back. You were playing control amd dominance games and look what prize you won kiddo. Good job.

As for her. Shes a whore. Didn't even wait for the body to go cold before she started sending live nudes and putting other guys balls down her throat. In a way, i commend people who get played by an ex and bounce back quickly... But that's simply too quickly to be considered normal. Kek. Shes clearly a whore.

I could see how she would go to a friends to talk while being emotionally rekt, only to end up with a dick down her mouth. Its trashy though. Absolutely. And the nudes are unacceptable. Shes a hoe. No doubt.

But this was your fault. Again, you both seem like real retards. Below normal levels of intelligence. Probably living in some hick town in the south. The entire situation just reeks of lowly redneck retards living their lives as stupidly as possible. But anyway, this was your fault for kicking things off.

However, unbeknownst to you, this may have saved yourself from being cheated on in the near future. Shes very clearly not girlfriend material. Possibly molested as a child. Shes the type to end up in porn. Shes very easy. You dodged a bullet.

Its not going to work. Its already over. Its been over. The relationship is in shambles and its never going back to the way it was. Dont bother. Its toast. but she isnt worth a damn. you just didn't know that at the time. You're very fortunate.

In the future, dont play those little breakup games after a silly little fight. Its the equivalent of throwing a temper tantrum like a babby does. If you are breaking up with someone, it better be definitive. Its a final solution. Not a half measure. Take the lesson you learned into the future.
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>>18151590
I have had friends who admit to doing very similar things after they get broken up with, and then end up getting back with their previous boyfriends a few days later and having to admit to them what they did. Most of their boyfriends forgave them, but they're all just really good guys (not betas either, i'm talking college football player types).

It really just depends on your convictions. Its very possible that this guy knew she had just been broken up with and saw an opportunity to get his dick wet. So when she went over to his house, she was expecting to be consoled but he knew that she was at her most desperate to feel valid. Prime rebound time. I've seen it happen over and over.
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>>18151590

God what a fucking mess anon
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>>18151679
>She is showing serious fucking remorse and had some kind of like emotional breakdown where she was shaking and crying and breathing like a retard today and that's after she was crying everyday in front of me and randomly for 3 days apologizing.

You can never be sure with girls. 90% of the time it's crocodile tears. If you never found out, she for sure would have let them take her to pound town.
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>>18151590
OP, gain some self respect she only got back because she's doesn't want to be alone. She's only remorseful about dick sucking and sexting because she got caught redhanded. She wouldn't have cared if it wasn't for your friend.
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>>18152243
You can never know with people in general. My ex was also oh so sad oh so remorseful after cheating on me. Strange how the remorse only happens when they're found out.
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>>18151590
>Dumped her
>She got over it
>I feel betrayed.

On, boo hoo
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>>18151590
>but is this okay because we weren't together?
No it's not. Feelings don't just go away like that. Feelings yield a sense of loyalty to someone. She was being a slut and is only acting this way because she knows she fucked up. Dump her. Any girl who jumps on another guys dick in retaliation to an argument or one rejection should not be tolerated. In fact, it's one of my shit tests. Anybody who tells you otherwise is a liberal cuck.
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