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I don't know what is a good relationship anymore 2017-03-22 08:40:18 Post No. 18150557
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I don't know what is a good relationship anymore
Anonymous
2017-03-22 08:40:18
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>be oldfag, 34 y.o., divorced
>meet this woman on tinder. Pic related
>a relationship develops
>after 1 year, she is a dedicated, sex-loving, pornstar-level sex skills, relatively smart, interesting, knows how to listen and many other pluses
>only negatives are some imaturity with finances and relationships. She keeps being jealous and sometimes paranoid.
>2 more years, I get truly tired of the relationship, dump her. She is devastated.
>1 month after breakup, meet this other woman on tinder
>same skills, same everything, more stable, more independent, less paranoid
>instant crush, she is the one!
>spend a good 2 weeks almost living together
>My crush is crushed at how "average" she is on everything relationship-related: poor comunications, poor understanding, poor attitude.
>still she is more than good at so many things
Key point here is this: they are both very good women, reasonable most of the time, very good looking, younger than me and so on.
I CAN'T FIND NO FUCKING REASON NOT TO LIKE THEM except petty shitty things
I feel like part of me is pushing away from good relationships and I have no idea why the fuck I am doing that
Or why the fuck I feel so demanding of my partners. I am not even that very good looking, or rich or cool, I am just average.
I constantly feel something is wrong with ME, not with them.
Yet, I can't attach myself to them. What gives?
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>>18150557
>>meet this woman on tinder. Pic related
OP here. OF COURSE NOT THAT SPECIFIC WOMAN
She is just that much good looking.
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Stop dating for a few years, stay away from women all together. You are asking for too much and nobody is perfect. Stop jugding people and judge yourself first that you can see clearly to be able to judge them with fair justice. In other words, instead of kicking them out, you try to actually work at it with the aim of building the persons trust for you. Trust is earned. not so freely given.
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>>18150600
Or you can just work on building trust and not considering people expendable.
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>>18150600
>>18150619
>building trust
You mean building my trust on them??
Because I don't know how you got the idea they don't trust me...
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>>18150626
>She keeps being jealous and sometimes paranoid
no reason to dump someone really, you could have helped her understand, but the choice is yours
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>>18150683
Notice 2 years passed... I did try.
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>>18150686
hmm.. some people just have hang ups ya know? But otherwise, they're great.. just gotta focus on the positives.
Right now I'm attracted to a girl who smokes weed, which I don't do. Hangs out and performs at pubs, which I no longer do, socializes often, and I'm an introvert. And she's probably real lib too, to boot. And I'm still attracted to her. But I know I will have to push a lot of frustration aside if she was mine, just being realistic. If I want her to be mine, I have to either accept who she is and roll with it, or burn up inside pretending I'm somehow better than her, which I'm not, and I wont be till my very last breath.
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>>18150557
Maybe try dating someone yor age
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>>18150723
How old are anon? Not being a dick, but you'll once a chick hits 33-34yrs old there fucking batshit crazy. I dont blame op.
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>>18150738
I heared this being said here about females from any age
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